September 30, 2004
pics!
Here they are! Thanks to everyone who made requests. I've done almost all of them - except Harvey's, which was censored, and Helen's, cos I haven't gone through all my old pics yet *grin*.
Magical mikey wanted: *an aussie xmas card [1] taken xmas day 2002 - see sister Lauren's bon-bon hat, and [2] taken on xmas day 2001 at the big presents near the Brewery in Adelaide. Not cards, cos I couldn't find any, but Xmas on a summers day nonetheless.
* A toilet flushing. Although no spiral visible. Sorry!
* And a love note. Look! It even rhymes! (no rack, I'm saving that for Boobie-thon).
The lovely Rose wanted: * brekkie (it's boiled, I eat them on the bus).
* Stinky tasty stuff on toast ('cept I'm not eating toast atm, so the vegemite will just have to do).
* My fave beverage in a glass/bottle etc. I will accept lesser versions, however I prefer the best not that I've ever tasted it.
Margi, you sexay thang, wanted: * The desk, where the blogging gets done [1] [2]. Spot the mega-huge Aussie Starbucks mug. This is USB/email-enabled puter, with the ridiculously big monitor. Which is why some of these pics are prolly way too big, I lose all sense of proportion *sigh*. Sorry bout that.
* Fave shoes with feet in them. Even though Julie was good and only showed one pair, I couldn't choose (spank me)... going out killer heels [1] [2] (you can see puter 2's desk in those shots... and a sign that we perhaps shouldn't have in the house) and fave work flats/casuals.
* A prized possession, something near and dear to my heart. Well, many of the things I'm posting are indeed that (buggles, tarot decks, josie), so I give you this [1] [2] cos I simply cannot live without it. Oh. And these two don't go astray either <3 <3. The other prized 'possession' wasn't sure about having his pic on DQ. Hehe.
When all else fails, I've kept this on my fridge for 3.5 years now, ever since my sis Lauren wrote it. Yes, I have the erotic version of Magnetic Poetry. What did you expect?
Delicious Daniel wanted: * fave logo T (I'm working on it)
* Fave tarot deck. I've gone with two: the one I read most with (complete with thai silk bag and the encyclopedia Daniel wishlisted me for my birthday in June <3), and one I just had to buy cos it's so darned cool... the Limited Edition Rock n Roll Tarot. Try n spot Tory, Bjork, NIN, Pumpkins, Stipe etc.
* Our matching VW Bugs. But I had mine first. Ner.
G-Fry wanted: * Whatever toilet is closest to me right now. See above, honey.
Ms. Empress wanted: * a picture of my pet. I give you... JOSIE, THE FLUFFER! Hear her roar!
Mainey mainey Maine wanted: * A picture of me reading blogs... well, I'm behind the camera, so...
* My TV and remote control. I did take a pic, but it was crap, so this one's still on the way
* My left hand. Each to their own. Here are both hands even. Ignore the manky nails, all my frenchies came off and I'm getting them put back on tomorrow night :).
Ev baby wanted: * a whole bunch o' ridiculous stuff that, while it made me *rofl*, I'm not going to bother with. *grin*
* Fave T-shirt: vintage or classic - again, will have to get back to you cos I forgot to get into my drawers with the camera tonight! Oo er.
* My CD collection. Now, all my music is on the puter these days, I gave away most of my CD's ages ago in a fit of Spring Cleaning (sacriledge I know, but they went to a good home... rest assured they included lots of Blur, Oasis, U2, Pumpkins, Pixies, Bjork, Tori, They Might Be Giants, Sleeper, Pulp, The Cure, Garbage, Blink 182 and many other upbeat poppy things, including about 10 different 80's collections). However, this may suffice. It's my dream to have a library one day.
* A pic of me putting on my face... forgot to take the pic this morning! Coming soon to a mirror near you.
* Desserts. Looks like ice cream and fruit muffins :).
* My inbox.
* ANNNNNDDDDD..... A pic of Ev's comment. *grin*
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What a great post, and how revealing! ;)
That's one of the best kitty pics I've ever seen: what a looker!
Awww. Goldielen, you're the best. That's the best blog ever. EVER, I SAY!
holy shiite, Goldie, your fluffer looks so much like mine! Meet Leonoardo: http://img7.exs.cx/img7/7344/Leonardo.jpg
aw thanks pam! we like her, even though she's evil. don't let her good looks fool you.
No worries Ev baby! although I don't think it's the best blog ever *lol*.
Wow, Celti, you're right! Leonardo looks like the male version of Josie! the colouring, the markings...
2 things... on the dessert pics - I just can't believe there's something "mighty soft" in a house that has you in it
and the "inbox" link - am I a bad person because my first thought was that it might be a picture of your... well... nevermind. I guess I *am* a bad person ;-)
All I need to know... and I'm being very serious here... is who I need to murder to get my hands on those rock and roll tarot cards - specifically the Pumpkins card. Those things are the killers.
And thank you for the shot of your left hand, but having the right hand in there with it ruined it. Ruined it all! Bad Goldie! Bad! The left hand is the hand most precious! The right hand is tainted!!
It puts the lotion in the basket or it gets the hose! It puts the lotion in the basket or it gets the hose!!
Wow! Terrific! And Fluffers is so cute! I'll be posting a picture of my cat, Berg, one day soon. Thanks for entertaining us!
this was so much fun. : )
Wow. You know the experts say that instant gratification can be bad for the human pysche, but duuuuuuuuuuuude. This was so awesome. I think everyone should have to do it, at least once.
It's like pr0n, only it isn't dirty or illegal or immoral. You can't get divorced over it, and you keep your self-respect intact.
You CAN'T LOSE!
It is also amazing what you can learn about someone from the way they keep their pc arranged....SLACKER!
That was very satisfiying, dahlink. Was this the best meme ever, or what? I LOVED seeing your pictures and, I have to agree, the picture of your fluffer probably the best catpic I've EVER seen.
Thank you for sharing, hon. You're one of a kind.
Love love love,
M
Your cat is gorgeous. Lovely site too!
Harv: puzzled over the mighty soft, but damn, they be tasty fruit muffins! I eat them split, toasted, with cream cheese, chopped strawberries and maple syrup *heaven*.
Maine: my deck was a limited edition, however I do know they auction off individual cards on ebay every now and again. the artist was Chris Paradis. Also, I have been known to put a print on a t-shirt for friends ;). Now wouldn't that be cool???
yaya darls: thanks baby! I'll let Josie know *grin*.
Julie: it was, wasn't it! I've just LOVED seeing everyone's pics :).
Ev: HAHA be careful or the hubby may smite you - it's his work desk, I have nothing to do with it! He keeps everyhting else spic and span though.
margi: *lovelovelove* :). it's been just great :). thank you so much for looking at all of them! and for taking yours - I still lurve your purple furry slippers. it's just so interesting to see bits and pieces of everyone you wouldn't normally see.
epistemological: why, thank you! I'll be sure to let her know :).
Rock on! You, ma'am, are the coolest! This was really awesomely fun, and now that I've seen yours I should probably get off my arse and finish up my own pics.
Thank you for pandering to our shameless requests!!
We've got the cat magnetic poetry... and you can make some pretty interesting sentences out of those words ;)
LOVE the Beetles doll, so classic!! I wish I had one, mines just one of the new jobs. Cute, but not classic...
The rock and roll deck is way cooler than I thought it'd be!
Don't even think I'm going to forget about the dumpy pics. I'm going to be vigilant :)
Helen baby: I wouldn't DREAM of it ;).
Rose: no, YOU are the coolest. and thanks for the opportunity to shamelessly show off parts of my life ;).
Jenny: whatever do you mean? my pure mind cannot comprehend such matters.
Daniel darls: while I adore my blue Buggles, and it would break my heart to trade him in, I'm getting a little sick n tired of hacking round in a clunker with no aircon. But as hubby says, if you can only afford a bomb, at least make sure it's a bomb with STYLE!
fun blog...i love pictures :) especially aussie ones
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September 29, 2004
a pic is worth a least a couple of interesting posts
Meme-age, which I scavenged from Ms. Pants cos it's wicked:
--Think of a picture you’d like to see from me.
--Leave whatever you’d like to see in the comments; things around the house, whatever, stuff that's easily photographed.
--Once I have enough requests, I’ll start posting them.
--If I can’t feasibly take a photograph of what you'd like to see, I'll let you know and you'll be welcome to give me another option or to tell me to piss off.
--If you ask for something that is pervy and/or I'm not up for it, I'll make fun of you publically. Or not.
PROGRESS (only cos I woke up at 4am): I took heaps of shots last night and had a ball, although none of them are uploaded yet as I fell asleep watching Law and Order sexy!hubby had to work on the USB-enabled 'puter, and now that puter is virus-checkin'.
(Which is also another reason I don't always get to emails quickly - they all get downloaded to that puter, and I only have mail2web and 1 day worth of server time to get to them on this side of the room.)
Other pics may take a day or two - Harvey, I think yours may require a fake tan. Were just coming out of winter here, yo. And mikey, I went for the flush, but I don't think it will answer your question - there was no 'spiralling'. Maybe I'll have to run a bath and let that out to capture it... And Helen... you evil chick *wink*. Believe me, there are WAY too many frumpy pics of me at my mum's place, mainly cos I was a extremely tardy bloomer.
Oooh. Goldie said 'bloomer'.
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1. a picture of an Australian Christmas card... just because I think it'd be odd to have Christmas in the middle of summer.
2. a picture of your toilet flushing. supposedly, the water in the southern hemisphere swirls the opposite way from in the northern.
3. your rack. go ahead. make fun of me. really, who doesn't want to see 'em? OK, fine, i'll settle for a picture of... of... a handwritten (by you) note declaring your love for me.
or, not. (;
1) Your breakfast!
2) Vegemite on toast, if you would be among those who would actually consume that vial condiment! (I've tried it, blame it on my USA-centric tastes, but it was like... shit on a shingle, to my poor taste buds!
3) Your current favorite beverage, whether it be in a bottle, can, glass or cup.
1) Your breakfast!
2) Vegemite on toast, if you would be among those who would actually consume that vile condiment! (I've tried it, blame it on my USA-centric tastes, but it was like... shit on a shingle, to my poor taste buds!
3) Your current favorite beverage, whether it be in a bottle, can, glass or cup.
Oh, and kick me in the ass for clicking twice or whatever the hell it is I did, okay?
A picture of whatever toilet is closest to you right now.
I'm sorry I had already done my pictures before your sweet requests came in, so here are my requests:
1) A picture of your desk -- you know -- where the blogging gets done.
2) A picture of your favorite shoes -- with your feet IN them.
3) A prize possession, something that is your favorite, near and dear to your heart.
1) Favorite logo tee
2) Your favorite Tarot deck.
3) Your beetle
I REALLY want to see a picture of you in your dumpy days. These are not the fat days, these are the days of adolescent crisis, usually involving a bad perm, glasses, and tragic taste in clothing.
I know you have one.
I just need proof that you're as human as the rest of us.
Ok, my turn: how about a picture of your pet, if you have one.
Just one... a picture of you in a medium-length skirt, hiking it up high on the side to expose the full length of one leg.
Preferably in heels ;-)
1. A picture of you reading blogs. Maybe even mine.
2. A shot of your remote control and TV, so I can see where the drama-obsessing goes on.
3. A shot of your left hand. (I need this one to complete a fantasy of mine...)
My other requests would be non-comment safe, so I shall keep them in reserve to be revealed at a more convenient time....
Mu ha ha ha ha ha!
1. You holding a steak knife to either your hubby or pet's throat. ( I know you'd never hurt him but it would make a great PWNED! picture and I need it.) (read: Pwned! is for gamers. It won't make sense to anyone but me.)
2. A picture of your favorite t-shirt (vintage or classic please)
3. Your cd collection.
4. You "putting on your face" in the AM. (C'mon nobody'll laugh, I promise.)
5. A picture of your favorite blog. (Dude, you know who this is, QW!.)
6. Hubby holding a pimpcane. Because seeing a photo of an irish pimp is a lifelong dream that I need to realize before I die.
7. Current desserts that are in your fridge.
8. Pic of your inbox. No, literally, your email inbox.
9. A pic of this comment on your post.
A shot of your left hand?
Hmmm...a little bit weird, that one. Almost like shoe-sniffing fetish weird, but each to his own fantasy...
Harvey, I'm afraid your image was vetoed by the husband :). feel free to choose something else. thank you come again.
The most worn-out, torn-up, pair of shoes you own, compared to the nicest, sassiest, kick-ass pair of shoes you own.
Every Diva has a pair of each!
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my alarm clock is fired
So I had an nice early night last night, thinking I'd be up bright and early this morning and off to work on foot.
Nope.
Remember that first scene from Four Weddings and a Funeral?
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got off to work late I am assuming...don't you hate when that happens?
Fuckety Fuck!
I love that film. In fact I've seen it 22 times, at last count.
I hate mornings like that. I wake up in a panic and it just goes downhill from there.
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September 28, 2004
taking stock (no pun intended)
General daily overview: Our impulses pull us to the edge of the emotional cliff with the Moon now in Aries. It is, however, being offset by the planetary traffic jam in Libra, the sign opposite to Aries. Today, Mercury the Communicator enters Libra to join expansive Jupiter, aggressive Mars and the Sun. Our thoughts seek harmony and balance in the rational realms. The philosophical perspective allows us to move away from self-interest and toward a more global view. An optimistic outlook can help us make positive steps in our lives.
That's one hell of a Libran line-up. Expect to be a little more judgemental than usual, as well as a little more forgiving. Maybe an old relationship will finally be patched up, or an old hurt forgiven. Libra is all about checks and balances.
And believe me. Watch out for the fiery Aries full moon tomorrow/Thursday night (Harvest Moon in the Northern Hemisphere). Things could get very heated very quickly. On the flip side, Aries moons are a great time to part-ay. Baby.
Me, I'm loving Mars in Libra. I'm finally letting out a shite-load of pent-up frustration (both here, other places, and in meatspace) and I feel so much better for it...
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wow, you learn something new about the moon every now and then... That's kewl AND interestiing!
glad to please Ashlar. I find that sort of stuff interesting too :D
Can I have my personal horoscope emailed to me everymorning? Yours is much nicer than the one in the paper...
However if you're just going to tell me that all Scorpios are going to be terribly horribly bitchy today I think I've allready got the inside scoop on that one.
I've already started venting. Now I'm waiting for the mending...
...Libras rock... almost as much fun as librarians... but, I'm biased...
I'm a Pieces, which is two fish, I think.
I'll watch out for Aries tomorrow night when the moon is full, but I thought fairy's didn't exists!
I hope you are having a nice day, Goldie!
Ha! I love the horoscopes. I also can't wait for the Harvest Moon.
Makes me happy to see someone who takes some stock in the reality behind this stuff! Woohoo!
(this coming from a by-the-book Aquarian married to a by-the-book Scorpio!)
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September 27, 2004
final-effing-ly
Channel 9 are actually going to start showing the second half of the final series of Sex and the City tonight. I won't have to be a poor, Carrie'n'Big-deprived Aussie girl anymore. Why in HELL they showed the first half in March-April and held the rest over til now, I'll never know. Prolly something to do with that Ratings Pie, and wanting an extra large share of same.
But I'm telling you now. If one more bloody Aussie TV network gets me hooked on one more TV series they've bought on the cheap from overseas, only to show 6 episodes during the Summer season, change its timeslot 3 times during that period, then move it to 1.30am for 3 more episodes (on 3 different nights mind you), and then not bother to finish the series at all... only to begin the second series in primetime a year later as if nothing happened (ala the Shield and Scrubs and countless others lately)...
Well. There will be bloodshed. Ooooh yes. *sharpens claws*
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Or at the very least a good tanty. And maybe a mediocre letter to the paper. If I'm in the mood.
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Is this the 6th season of sex and the city....that is my favorite show....i love it, i bought season 1 and i am going to buy the rest of them.
I would go insane if that was me! Not sure if you have The OC down there, but I love it! The 1st season ended in the spring and now the 2nd season won't start until early November. And now they're going to move the show to the busiest night of the week - Thursday. There are so many shows to watch on Thursdays that just about every other night of the week is lacking. I don't know why they don't share the love.
If you need to release pent-up agressions, you can always spank me ;-)
The Shield and Scrubs? I'd be well fucked if they moved my timeslots and made me miss 'em.
Can Aussie network executives fight well? They'd have a battle royal on their hands!
Adria I think the final season is the 6th season... but anyways, it was fab. "This program is rated MA: 15+. It contains strong sex scenes, coarse language and sexual references."
Six feet under, which was on right after (oh heavenly monday nights) had a similar warning, but add 'drug use' for Nate smokin a pipe.
Yaya darlin', we sure do have The OC. It's taken me a while to get into it. I think I've been spoiled by the depth of stuff like 6 feet. but I watch it for my escapist fix every week. and yes, they most certainly stuffed around with it last summer, but then replayed it all in prime time, including all the episodes they didn't show. I think they realised they were on to a winner and yanked it from low ratings period.
Harv: only if you're good. aheh. I have seem rather frustrated lately haven't I? I'm really enjoying some good rants though - see Bitchalicious ;).
Maine I know! we both adore Scrubs (who wouldn't) and hubby loves the Shield. We were about ready to hurl many, many abusive things (rotten tomatoes and such) but we figured they wouldn't understand anyways :(. We're just waiting for scrubs to come out on DVD. Hmmm. Maybe amazon has a US version...
I missed most of the last two seasons of SATC, but saw the series finale. I thought the ends were tied up too neatly..just my opinion.
You're into Six Feet Under? Heh. We must chat.
Ms Funky: Oh I love six feet under. I love media that pushes the boundaries, whether it be television, cinema, online, print, design...
Hell yes. Scrubs. One of the best shows on TV right now. I freaking love Zach Braff.
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have you jumped off a bridge just cos everyone else did?
Whored from... lessee... mikey, gennie and rachel (that I've remembered anyways).
Don't know the drill? The embolded things are stuff I've done. Not to say that I don't have plans to do some of the other stuff. I'm finding it just as interesting to see what people haven't done though...
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01. Bought everyone in the pub a drink
02. Swam with wild dolphins (I'm phobic of fish/mammalian aquatic beings)
03. Climbed a mountain
04. Taken a Ferrari for a test drive
05. Been inside the Great Pyramid
06. Held a tarantula.
07. Taken a candlelit bath with someone
08. Said 'I love you' and meant it
09. Hugged a tree
10. Done a striptease
11. Bungee jumped
12. Visited Paris
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea
14. Stayed up all night long, and watch the sun rise (It's called snogging in the park on a warm summer night. It's also called going to a rave)
15. Seen the Northern Lights
16. Gone to a huge sports game
17. Walked the stairs to the top of the leaning Tower of Pisa
18. Grown and eaten your own vegetables (Do herbs count? I think they do - I'm growing capsicums this year)
19. Touched an iceberg
20. Slept under the stars
21. Changed a baby's diaper
22. Taken a trip in a hot air balloon
23. Watched a meteor shower
24. Gotten drunk on champagne
25. Given more than you can afford to charity
26. Looked up at the night sky through a telescope
27. Had an uncontrollable giggling fit at the worst possible moment (I read a text from my hubby in the middle of a lecture and burst out laughing right in the middle of a very serious debate between a peer and the lecturer)
28. Had a food fight
29. Bet on a winning horse
30. Taken a sick day when you're not ill (Aha. That's the lie-detector question)
31. Asked out a stranger
32. Had a snowball fight (I don't live in snow country)
33. Photocopied your bottom on the office photocopier
34. Screamed as loudly as you possibly can
35. Held a lamb
36. Enacted a favorite fantasy
37. Taken a midnight skinny dip
38. Taken an ice cold bath
39. Had a meaningful conversation with a beggar
40. Seen a total eclipse
41. Ridden a roller coaster
42. Hit a home run (Or equivalent of - a 6 in cricket - I get to take poetic licence with this one cos baseball isn't one of our national sports)
43. Fit three weeks miraculously into three days
44. Danced like a fool and not cared who was looking
45. Adopted an accent for an entire day
46. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
47. Actually felt happy about your life, even for just a moment
48. Had two hard drives for your computer
49. Visited all 50 states (Which 50 states? Where are these 50 states *feigns puzzled look*)
50. Loved your job for all accounts
51. Taken care of someone who was shit faced
52. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
53. Had amazing friends
54. Danced with a stranger in a foreign country
55. Watched wild whales (Even though they scare the bejeebus and then some out of me)
56. Stolen a sign
57. Backpacked in Europe (WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHH!)
58. Taken a road-trip
59. Rock climbing
60. Lied to foreign government's official in that country to avoid notice
61. Midnight walk on the beach
62. Sky diving
63. Visited Ireland (No doubt it will happen though - irish hubby and all)
64. Been heartbroken longer then you were actually in love
65. In a restaurant, sat at a stranger's table and had a meal with them
66. Visited Japan
67. Benchpressed your own weight
68. Milked a cow
69. Alphabetized your records
70. Pretended to be a superhero (My mum owned a costuume business)
71. Sung karaoke
72. Lounged around in bed all day
73. Posed nude in front of strangers
74. Scuba diving (Nope. I hear there are fish when you go scuba diving)
75. Got it on to "Let's Get It On" by Marvin Gaye
76. Kissed in the rain
77. Played in the mud
78. Played in the rain
79. Gone to a drive-in theater
80. Done something you should regret, but don't regret it
81. Visited the Great Wall of China
82. Discovered that someone who's not supposed to have known about your blog has discovered your blog
83. Dropped Windows in favor of something better
84. Started a business
85. Fallen in love and not had your heart broken
86. Toured ancient sites
87. Taken a martial arts class
88. Swordfought for the honor of a woman
89. Played D&D for more than 6 hours straight
90. Gotten married
91. Been in a movie
92. Crashed a party
93. Loved someone you shouldn't have (I married him too)
94. Kissed someone so passionately it made them dizzy
95. Gotten divorced
96. Had sex at the office
97. Gone without food for 5 days
98. Made cookies from scratch
99. Won first prize in a costume contest
100. Ridden a gondola in Venice
101. Gotten a tattoo
102. Found that the texture of some materials can turn you on
103. Rafted the Snake River (Again, where is this?)
104. Been on television news programs as an "expert"
105. Got flowers for no reason
106. Masturbated in a public place
107. Got so drunk you don't remember anything
108. Been addicted to some form of illegal drug
109. Performed on stage
110. Been to Las Vegas
111. Recorded music
112. Eaten shark
113. Had a one-night stand
114. Gone to Thailand
115. Seen Siouxsie live
116. Bought a house
117. Been in a combat zone
118. Buried one/both of your parents
119. Shaved or waxed your pubic hair off
120. Been on a cruise ship
121. Spoken more than one language fluently
122. Gotten into a fight while attempting to defend someone
123. Bounced a check
124. Performed in Rocky Horror
125. Read - and understood - your credit report
126. Raised children
127. Recently bought and played with a favorite childhood toy
128. Followed your favorite band/singer on tour (I met Damon Albarn of Blur at the Hilton when they toured here though *le sigh*)
129. Created and named your own constellation of stars
130. Taken an exotic bicycle tour in a foreign country
131. Found out something significant that your ancestors did
132. Called or written your Congress person
133. Picked up and moved to another city to just start over (No, but hubby has)
134. ...more than once? - More than thrice?
135. Walked the Golden Gate Bridge
136. Sang loudly in the car, and didn't stop when you knew someone was looking
137. Had an abortion or your female partner did
138. Had plastic surgery
139. Survived an accident that you shouldn't have survived.
140. Wrote articles for a large publication (It's a living)
141. Lost over 100 pounds
142. Held someone while they were having a flashback
143. Piloted an airplane
144. Petted a stingray
145. Broken someone's heart
146. Helped an animal give birth
147. Been fired or laid off from a job
148. Won money on a T.V. game show
149. Broken a bone
150. Killed a human being
151. Gone on an African photo safari
152. Ridden a motorcycle
153. Driven any land vehicle at a speed of greater than 100mph
154. Had a body part of yours below the neck pierced
155. Fired a rifle, shotgun, or pistol
156. Eaten mushrooms that were gathered in the wild
157. Ridden a horse
158. Had major surgery
159. Had sex on a moving train
160. Had a snake as a pet
161. Hiked to the bottom of the Grand Canyon
162. Slept through an entire flight: takeoff, flight, and landing
163. Slept for more than 30 hours over the course of 48 hours
164. Visited more foreign countries than U.S. states
165. Visited all 7 continents
166. Taken a canoe trip that lasted more than 2 days
167. Eaten kangaroo meat
168. Fallen in love at an ancient Mayan burial ground (Ok... WTF??? This is just getting ridiculous)
169. Been a sperm or egg donor
170. Eaten sushi
171. Had your picture in the newspaper
172. Had 2 (or more) healthy romantic relationships for over a year in your lifetime
173. Changed someone's mind about something you care deeply about
174. Gotten someone fired for their actions
175. Gone back to school
176. Parasailed
177. Changed your name
178. Petted a cockroach
179. Eaten fried green tomatoes
180. Read The Iliad
181. Selected one "important" author who you missed in school, and read (Many more than one)
182. Dined in a restaurant and stolen silverware, plates, cups because your apartment needed them
183. ...and gotten 86'ed from the restaurant because you did it so many times, they figured out it was you
184. Taught yourself an art from scratch
185. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
186. Apologized to someone years after inflicting the hurt
187. Skipped all your school reunions (not on purpose)
188. Communicated with someone without sharing a common spoken language
189. Been elected to public office
190. Written your own computer language
191. Thought to yourself that you're living your dream
192. Had to put someone you love into hospice care
193. Built your own PC from parts
194. Sold your own artwork to someone who didn't know you
195. Had a booth at a street fair
196: Dyed your hair
197: Been a DJ
198: Found out someone was going to dump you via LiveJournal
199: Written your own role playing game
200: Been arrested
So many of these mention travel outside of my own country. I WILL DO IT SOON OR DIE TRYING FOLKS *grrrr*.
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Things I've done are in bold - don't expect much, though I suspect a lot of these come with age...
01. Bought everyone in the pub a drink
02. Swam with wild dolphins. No, but they played around the boat for about 30 minutes:...
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You have been a DJ? I'm so jealous!!!
aheh. does guesting for two nights count? the question didn't specify how long you were sposed to have been a DJ for ;).
And it was all CDs too - no vinyl. *shameful look*
I get 50 points! And you'll get another link back to your page!
I'm not going to ask why you've been petting cockroaches.
And I'll see you in Phoenix soon right?
:D
50 for me!
By the way, I think you should be allowed to substitute the 7 states of Australia for the 50 states. Figure the purpose of the question is to check on the quantity of your domestic travels.
AND NOW - 50 points will get you... my adoration and a cup of coffee?!
rachel: cockroaches are my friends! not... and you will see me in Phoenix one day soon *fingers crossed*. Especially if I win the lottery!
Ooh Harv, good point about the states. In that case, no, I've only been to 4 states and 1 territory in Australia (another 3 states and 1 territory to go).
Where's my coffee? And do you have any of those little portable Irish Creamers I can take with me?
If not that's ok, I have some Irish Cream over here..
And I'm done being horribly nasty for the next 8 hours while I sleep :D
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darlin', darlin', I don't know why
General daily overview: The Moon is in compassionate Pisces today. We become more aware of other people's feelings but can also get confused about our own boundaries. The big cosmic news, however, is that Mars, the fiery God of War has left analytical Virgo to enter harmonious Libra. Mars moving through Libra until November 10 finds a nicer way to get what he desires. Since Libra seeks balance, Mars here likes to even the score. Although strategies become emphasized, we shouldn't discount the physical drive associated with this transit.
Ahhh... lovely Libra! How I have missed thee!
Get ready for not just a horny 6 weeks (the so-called "physical drive" of passionate Mars in partnership-oriented Libra... oo er), but an incredibly lucky 12 months in lovin'. Jupiter, the planet of expansion and good fortune, is also in this sign of beauty, love and togetherness for a year. If you're lookin' for that special someone, now is sooo the right time.
And if you're just looking for a shag, the next 6 weeks should see you all buff in the boudoir more than once. Although don't go getting too rough and tumble, like these 2 did... (via ms empress and gennie)
Sing it with me... "Darlin' I... oh I... I can't get enough of your love baby..."
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PS: in celebration of the new site, I decided to dust off the ole bodypaint pics cos I just love them SO MUCH.
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That is a hysterical video!!
I'm not much for this astrology stuff. In fact, most of the time, I find that it describes the day I just completed. But every once in a while, it kind of matches up.
Then I think about it a little more and revert back to my beloved cynicism.
you know you love it g-fry.
Hmm they never seem to do anything for me. Always seem to vauge, that they could actually end up describing anyones day. I also am very skeptical about everyone in september having the same kind of day I have... I don't like those odds, and I'm not even a betting man.
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September 26, 2004
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To all visitors here at DramaQueen: Due to unforseen circumstances, there have been issues recently with perusers of the content herein being unable to post a response to entries (otherwise know as 'commenting') due to the string 'http://' being added to the MuNuvian Blacklist. 'Comments' were being rejected as containing 'questionable content'.
Please note that this situation has now been rectified forthwith, however it is recommended that you still refrain from using 'http://' anywhere in your responses to entries.
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Very proffesional, the way you just said that!
why thankyou JaG :). Actually, that's in the language I'm aiming to edit out of all the documents at work *grin*.
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lazy sunday fun
Via Gennie and rachel: a meme! The first meme while I've been at mu.nu in fact.
The Saturday 8 ('cept it's really Sunday down under):
1. How many people have you dated that were not naturalised citizens of your country?
Quite a few actually. My husband was born in Ireland and is half Irish/half Dutch, and a Canadian citizen (Vancouver for 7 years). Plus I dated another Irish guy (a resident but not a citizen), a Liverpudlian and a Scottish bloke. It got to the point when people would see me eyeing off a guy and they'd ask "Does he have an accent? Cos if not, he won't be Goldie's type." But it wasn't on purpose, I swear!!!
2. Have you ever dated someone that was not of your race? How did that work out?
Nope.
3. How many different countries have you visited?
To borrow Gennie's response, "Sadly, none. I plan to remedy that one day." Yes. I guess I need a passport first. It doesn't help that sexy!hubby has been just about EVERYWHERE *grrr*
4. If you could go to a specific country of your choice ... no expenses spared ... where would go visit, and why?
Well Ireland of course. Maybe we'll go with rachel and Gary. sexy!hubby actually wants to take me to Vancouver first though.
5. My favourite food is Greek food (i'm American). What is your favourite international flavour?
In Aus we have sooo many different cuisines, especially Asian due to its proximity and the amount of Asian people living here, so we get treated to all sorts of amazing cuisines. I adore Thai, Indian and Japanese, and I also LOVE Mexican and Italian. YUM!
6. I love French and Indian movies. What other countries' movies do you enjoy?
Like Gennie, I love British/Irish movies. I grew up with them. I don't much like Aussie movies lately (blasphemy!), but I adored Muriel's Wedding and Priscilla =D. I also love French films (Amelie, the Apartment and Betty Blue to name a couple) no matter how cliched that may sound. I don't mind American movies on average, but what a generalisation that is! Eg, American indie cinema is FABULOUS, while the mainstream stuff averages OK. Depends on what genre you like I guess.
7. How many other languages do you speak besides your native language?
I can speak a little Italian. I'd love to live in France and learn the language from the locals like a friend of mine did.
8. Do you have international friends, and what countries do they come from?
To borrow another response from Gennie, "Thanks to the internet and this blog, I have friends from all over the world. And I love you all! :)" Ditto babe! *mwah*!
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I think you should start up a Proxy International Club. You know-be the president of it. I think it sounds perfect-you can travel without ever leaving your blog. Read stuff about other travels-mine, Simon's, you name it.
Proxy International Club. AKA the Live vicariously Club.
And get that passport missy!
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I've seen few posts about the place chuckling over the recent crop of 'spam names'. Lately the names showing up in my trash folder seem to consist of 2 randomly thrown together words, with an initial thrust deseperately between them in the hope that the recipient is either 5 years old or has an IQ < 10, and can be fooled into opening the mail (usually some dirty porn stuff ooo er!).
For example: Scrap R. Bridesmaids (what? You wanna elope? Or have you just had another bitchy tiff?), Reload F. Boudoir (so I guess the web cam stuffed up in the brothel again...), Heinous P. Hallucinate (those were some REALLY BAD shrooms, man!!!!), and Oscillating A. Pooh [whose actual email adress was smutty@iloveplymouth.com] (so the shit really DID hit the fan!!!)
But my favourite of late was Spermicides D. Thesauruses.
Any thoughts on what this one could mean? *boggle*
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hmmm... test. people have had trouble posting comments lately, and getting the 'questionable content' error (funnily enough).
Apparently all you need to do is delete the "h__p://" from the URL of your site in the box, and it should work fine. thanks to Tuning Spork for the heads up!
also good to delete any "h__p://" stuff from any URL's you wanna post in comments eg [ a href = " dramaqueen.mu.nu " ]. I did that with the above comment, and the link to Tuning Spork's site still worked. cool, I never knew that :)
Testing ... Testing ... Is this thing on?
My technique for spam email is to just trash them. I just consider them all to come from the same address, Document B. Deleted.
"Document B. Deleted"
LOL! :-)
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September 25, 2004
port power and the girl who could (party if she wanted to)
OH OH OH AAAHHHHHH &^%$@#!!!!
No, I'm not orgasming (although that might be nice, come to think of it).
No. That's my frustrated noise. Use your imagination, I'm sure it'll make sense.
You see, today Port Adelaide Power won the AussieRules Football League Grand Final in truly glorious, spectacular fashion (C'ARN THE POWER!!!). We completely annihilated Brisbane in fact, and bore it up the Vics (sorry Adam... not) in one luscious fell swoop. YEAH BABY!
But that's not why I'm frustrated.
I spent the first half of the game with my sister CY (whose hair loss from three weeks of radiotherapy is now startlingly, yet proudly apparent), her lovely new boyfriend and her best mate, watching sexy buff men in extremely tiny white shorts pummel each other mercilessly with no body armour to protect them, unlike some other poncy sports they call 'football' ;) and cheering our underdog team along under the Spring sun. Yep, we're having some Weather. Yum.
But that's not why I'm frustrated either.
No. I'm frustrated cos I know this town is going to erupt tonight... AND I HAVE NO FUCKING PLANS TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT. I can already hear people's horns as they hoon along a main street nearby, tooting and shouting 'C'arn the Power!'.
But no. NOOO. I chose this weekend to still be sick. It's only 6.37pm and I feel like going for a snooze right now in fact. I also chose Thursday to finally start my bloody Summer weight loss diet, meaning no alcohol. Period. So to avoid temptation, I need to stay in the house. Plus sexy!hubby has to work. He has so much work to do these days, poor dear :(.
So I'm stuck in that limbo - I do kinda sorta wanna go out. I have plenty of people I could call if I wanted to do so, and some gorgeous new shoes I'm just itching to wear out... But am I sure I really want to if I can't have a couple of beers in Powerful celebration?? Let alone the bacteria partying in my sinuses inhibiting me? And then there's all the money I'd spend...
AAAARRRRGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH!!
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Just stop by my place & prance around nekkid in the comments for a while.
Guaranteed to make you feel better :-)
Oh no.....you're not one of those ferals....are you?! Argh!
Pretty shoes! Sorry to hear you're still sick! That sucks. Hope you're feeling better soon.
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September 24, 2004
bitch 'n' moan
I thought anti-biotics (particularly those of the horse-sized penicillin variety) were sposed to make you... you know... GET BETTER?
Well I'm on my second prescription of those fuckers and about the only reaction my body's giving me is a sore set of intestines as the HSP's eat away all the good bacteria in my body, while letting the bad stuff run rampant.
In fact, I think the bad stuff is having a party in the sinuses near my eye sockets right now, and has been for a couple of days. Not even codeine is inhibiting the pain those flithy little bastards are projecting throughout my entire head. Hell, I even have panadeine plus (that's 15 mg of codeine per tablet baby) and it's not doing a goddamn thing.
On top of all that, I'm due at the dentist for 2 fillings at 9am this morning.
Welcome to my world.
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Fuckityfuck. I've run out of the useless panadeine. Someone's gonna pay!
Well, I guess it could be worse. You might have had to go to the proctologist in the afternoon as well. All is well in the world ;)
i am sorry you are feeling sick......do you know whats wrong with you?
Hope you feel better, Holdie. There's nothing worse than a down under the weather Ozzie.
It could be a virus, in which case antibiotics won't help.
At least you don't have what happened to me after three courses of them in a row (after removal of an impacted tooth) -- a raging yeast infection.
Life was definitely HELL from that point!
Wanna trade pills? See if mine work for you and vice versa.. mine might even be a tad bit smaller.. but I have to take 8 a night..
What they lack in size they make up for in quantity.
I am having the EXACT same problem. It sucks monkey balls, dude!
I've got to agree with Margi - be careful taking all those antibiotics, you don't want to end up with a wonked out hoo-hoo!!
"a wonked out hoo-hoo!!"
Ya know, Goldie, the only reason I come here is to expand my vocabulary :-)
Get better soon.
I hope you feel better soon, goldie!
My mom felt sick like that one time for a long time, but none of the drugs worked that the doctor gave her, so she punched him in the face and she felt better, but he didn't!
I will be thinking bout you, goldie, so take care of yourself!
**HUGS**
What a bummer! First of all - get yourself some real yogurt - no sugar, with the live acidophyllus in it. Take a tablespoonful in the morning and in the evening - to get those good bacteria back where they belong!
Next - if this round of pennicillin does not work - refuse a third round - tell the doctor to try a different type of antibiotic or you'll find a different doctor - there are tons out there and pennicillin does not work for everything! Sheesh!!!
Last of all - I hope you feel better soon!
damn, girl, 1000s of miles away from each other and we're suffering from the same ills. My sinuses have decided that they don't like this ride any more and they want off!
I feel for you, hon!
Thanks everyone, you're all so sweet! Except Adam. He mentioned the 'P' word ;P. *HUGS* and 'get well soons' to everyone who's also feeling ratshit.
Margi, thanks babe. Last time I went to the doc (Monday 11 days ago) she said it was an ear infection that had spread to my sinuses. So hopefully this stuff will work.
However, I have my doubts as to whether these are 'real' antibiotics - they took their sweet time getting my stomach annoyed, and as for my hoo hoo (as Rose called it hehehe), well, there's been no reaction whatsoever. Which is, shall we say, unusual *ahem*
And the bloody things are name-brand pills. Hmmm...
Harv, I'm glad my site works for you in some way or another ;).
Teresa thanks for the good advice babe, I'm well covered in the acidophilous (sp?) area - I have Inner Health capsules. now if only the bloody antibiotics would do something, I'd be set!
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September 22, 2004
woohoo!
Blogger Boobie-thon is on again, supporting two causes close to my heart - breasts and cancer. I'll be in it. Join me if you dare!
Via the uber-scary, halloweeny Joelle.
UPDATE: 'Course, you lovely male people do realise that plenty of guys submit their racks to the Boobie-thon too, don't you? Males can still develop cancer of the boobies, so get a clicking! Harvey already has his shot ready to go...
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Postcards from the edge
Excerpt: http://www.shutterblog.com/developed/exposed/postcardshot_playin_thumb.jpg
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Boobs, Boobs Everywhere
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Bloggin' For Another Cause
Excerpt: Bloggin' For Another Cause I haven't heard of the Boobie-Thon before. Thanks, Helen. G-Fry...
Weblog: The Cranial Mishaps of G-Fry
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I wonder just how drunk I'll have to get my hubby to coerce him into agreeing to allow me to post a boobie pic.
This could take a LOT of beer. Aheh.
ah margi, we just need to use the c-word on him - 'charity'. And then just say it's a 'regular' shot (you can crop it later). but wear your bikini top. or something ;).
at least they're all anonymous shots!
That sounds absolutely lovely... the charity, of course... not that your breasts aren't lovely alabaster orbs capped with beautiful temples of sensitive skin begging to be suckled gently... Not that I have fantasized about sucking your nipples... But that's not to say yours aren't suckable; I'm sure they are as you'd grab my hair as I suck them... I mean grab anyone's hair as they suck them... I'll just shut up now.
Dude, you're not supposed to just come out and say it like that. Now everything is all filthy and dirty.
Innuendo, my friend. Goldie's husband might get angry. And nobody wants that. Then again, maybe he's into listening to guys drool whilst imagining Goldielen doing things that her mother would probably not approve of. I dunno, and I probably don't wanna know.
Ev darls, thanks for defending my honour. You are a good and decent flirty man, of which i approve.
Innuendo is everyone's friend, especially when the Boobie-thon is all about COVERED boobies (unless you want to donate per uncovered shot) and raising money for breast cancer. After my lil sister's experience with her brain tumour, I'm all for supporting research towards blasting glioma-like cells out of the water baby.
Thomas, thanks for dropping by, but let's keep the softporn to your blog mkaythnx?
Hey - freakin' Hotmail choked on me just as I was sending a fabulously written long reply to your much-welcomed email.
So, while microsoft can bite my ass, could you let me know if you received the reply?
Thanks hon!
Mammology... what a gig that would be.
Nevertheless, a damn good cause.
Thats right. males can get breast cancer.
Were you on there last year the, Goldie? I'll have to have a closer look if that's the case.
I was, btw.
Now you need a closer look...:P
Nope, I'm a boobie-thon virgin Antgrad. I'm poppin' my own cherry.
good on you for submitting last year! See guys? Antgrads got it goin' ON! Also, I hear the quietwater boys will be submitting their racks for charity too. Woohoo!
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I have this week discovered the delights of cookie dough, and the homebaking of said product. In fact, I may even be addicted already.
*twitch* *shiver*
However can someone tell me why the makers recommend you don't eat the dough raw? Cos if it's like, poisonous or something, I'm in some seriously deep shite.
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If it’s poisonous, I’m in BIG trouble! In fact, I think I’d be dead by now if it was. Seriously though, I think it’s because it contains raw egg, which can cause salmonella poisoning. So, yeah, in a roundabout way, it could be poisonous, but if you keep in the fridge, you should be alright.
IT's the raw egg. And seriously, I'd have been dead long ago too. Sometimes, I never ever get any baked. Sometimes, I buy the dough just to eat it, and not to bake at all.
Oh! the horror!
I buy it just to eat it raw, too. Yum!!
Everyone eats raw cookie dough. Maybe we're all dead.
I'm in agreement - it is most certainly from the fact that there are raw eggs in the dough.
But I am also in agreement with the assessment that we'd all be dead. I mean, come on - they actually sell cookie dough ice cream with raw cookie dough in it!
They just want to protect themselves from salmonella.
The key to protecting yourself is to inoculate yourself with daily doses of cookie dough, so that you can build up an immunity :-)
It is the raw egg. Chances are you won't die from eating it, but you may get a kinda sickish. If I'm gonna eat a bunch of cookie dough in one sitting, I'll use those liquid eggs. No risk of sickness. I can fatten myself up with no fear.
... and for $40 you can get yourself a fabbo icecream maker and make your very own chocolate chip cookie dough icecream.
Can feel my arteries hardening as we speak.
I haven't had raw cookie dough in years! But just thinking about it brings back warm memories...mmmm
i still have the sesame street library books from when i was little, and in one, the cookie monster gives you a recipe for cookie dough.
i found it and made it for my kids. the next time i made it, it was for me and it never went anywhere near the oven.
c is for cookie dough, thats good enough for me
If raw cookie dough were harmful - - I'd have been six feet under a LONG time ago.
Love it.
LOVE. IT.
When I was a kid, I always used to eat hotdogs right out of the fridge,
liked em better that way than cooked. They were precooked and everything
after all. Well, a few months back, I was BBQing hotdogs, and noticed a big
old warning on the packet to not eat them if you hadn't (re)cooked them first!
god i wish i could get cookie dough out here.....
I think I'm addicted to cookie dough. But I don't have it on a regular basis, trust me. I just have it once in a while when I really have the urge. If I haven't had it in months I'll have some. But other than that I'm really health consious. Last night and today I practically finished the whole role of cookie dough by my self. Trust me I'm not going to have cookie dough in a long time. But at least I'm still skinny I mean I only weigh 86 pounds. And trust me I'm very active.
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our own lil game of Balderdash
Dictionary.com's Word of the Day just happens to be:
tatterdemalion \tat-uhr-dih-MAYL-yuhn; -MAY-lee-uhn\, noun
Wowee. This Word is just way too much fun. Now before you click on the link in my sidebar for the definition, tell me what you think it means. Cos believe me... the real definition ain't nowhere near as good as I thought it would be.
*mutter* bloody tease of a word *mutter*
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By the way, I'm thinking either a) Audrey Hepburn in My Fair Lady, pre-rich dude and makeover or b) an uber-sexy demon (from the fourth circle of hell, ie, the trendy suburb) who only wears the latest in street fashion.
Meh. I want to think of something saucy and just dripping with innuendo, but my medulla oblongata just ain't cooperating lately. Or maybe it's my hippocampus? Anyways. Lay it on me baby!
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Oo! Goldie! One of my very favoritest words. Blowing me ownest horn...
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Alger had described Cally — in one of those dozen-score stories he kept tucked away in his drawer and was afraid to send out — as tatterdemalion. It fit her. Cally was tatterdemalion and tatterdemalion was Cally.
The first thing you noticed about her was the contrast between her cotton-white mop of hair and her nut-brown skin. Being as she was a natural blonde, you wouldn't think she could develop and keep that smooth, even, deep tan, but she did.
The second thing you noticed about her was just how much of that tan skin you could see. Like now. She was wearing a gray sweat shirt with the sleeves hacked off and the bottom cropped up to her ribs. The front and back hung free, with no attachment at the sides. She was built like a boy almost, quite small-breasted, and could get away without wearing a bra.
The thing about Cally was what she could get away with, she would do. She always took advantage — to and beyond the outside edge of the envelope. Not content with the exposure achieved by de-sleeving and cropping the sweat shirt, Cally had taken a razor blade to what was left of the poor thing and made a series of horizontal slits across it, front and back. They left very little to the imagination. Then there were the jeans, which had been similarly attacked with a razor.
All-in-all, the amount of flesh exposed left Dolly wondering, "Why bother?" Why not just go naked? Not that Cally wouldn't strip to the buff at the drop of a hint. She liked being naked and didn't mind sharing. And she had the cutest little butt...
(from "Writer's Block" by Mark Philip Alger -- available here.)
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I'll use it in a sentence:
"After she finished playing a naughty game of "pirate hostage", Goldie's dress was tatterdemalion ways to Sunday."
I think tatterdemalion is a tatter teller who likes demastrate his skill with lions, I think.
A demon wearing tattered clothing!
*clicks for answer*
Ok, not far off!!
It's a gourmet French potato. Combine with tarragon, creme fraiche and whole grain mustard, toss into a green salad and accompany with a glass of finest Chablis.
Am I close?
how freakin weird! since i have that word a day thing on my site as well, i JUST looked it up before coming here. so i guess that's old news fo me.
did you know that there was a marvel comic book character named Tatterdemalion? I googled that.
Heh. I just keep seeing a hairy horned dude who likes to eat them french fried taters uh huh...
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September 21, 2004
train tracks, train tracks part 2
Guess what? I'm in a net cafe on my lunch break. Sad, but true. But I just had to tell you stuff.
So I just came back from my ortho appointment. Do you want the good news first, or the bad news?
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Yeah I always want the bad news first too. *grin*
Bad news: I definitely need tooth realignment, and Invisalign just isn't gonna cut it. Nor is a plate/retainer. So it's the good ole clear braces brackets for me.
Good news: I'll only need them for 9 months instead of the 2 years I originally feared, and they'll only cost me $1100, instead of $2500. Woohoo!
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Sounds like good news to me!!
SWEET. You're going to hiss when you talk.
Ev: Nah. That's plates/retainers.
I hope.
*schluuuurrrrppp*
I just recently recieved braces for $1700 vs. what I thougt to be ~$3000, and guess how long I have to wear them... 9 months. I just saw this entry and had to say that, isn't that veird?
Every dentist I've ever gone to has asked me if I've had braces in the past. Apparently, my teeth are naturally very straight. Not to rub it in or anything...
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skinny dippin'
Spring gets me thinking about beautifying all sorts of stuff (hence my Lush orders *grin*). Which you may have noticed, given the four skins (designs) I now have prettying the place up here at DQ.
So I'd already picked out an image for my next skin (to give DQ a taste of the Aussie Summer), and I sent it to Diva Cherry for her opinion, with the aim of having a go at this whole designing thing myself. Lo and behold, the sweetheart was on a slow day and skinned it all up for me as a present! Hah!
As we say in Aussie, "legend... legend... deadset legend". That means you're fucking fabulous Cherry. Everyone. Go give Cherry a hug.
I'm keeping the skin under wraps til the end of October, but check out shag.com and see if you can't find my source image.
Meanwhile, Julie has been most busy designing up the holiday skin I was lucky enough to score via this moxie special. Without giving too much away (although it is about the place in portfolios and the like), this skin will have you thinking 'cheeky' thoughts about Xmas 'stocking stuffers'. *wink*
THANK YOU JULIE!
Ooo er! I'm almost looking forward to Xmas now. *naughty grin*
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Ooh... I saw it!! Hahaha! Very nice! I hope to have a sexy holiday look soon too....
Daniel is a cheater! hehehe
You are most welcome Goldie!
I peeked at the Shag one. I lub it to pieces.
Both the Christmas skin, which is already installed, just FYI... and the Shag skin are both lovely.
WARNING: Goldie is on the verge of overdosing on skins. She must be stopped! An intervention needs to happen now!
Hah! Daniel is such a cheater ;). classic.
It is great isn't it rachel!
Thanks Joelle, you're a sweetie :).
And yes, Lori, it's true. I'm about to overdose. I'll be needing an intervention... right after Xmas. ...but this whole skin thing is so ADDICTIVE!
You know what they say....Do not open before christmas? Well, I carefully pulled off the tape and unfastened the bow and snuck a peek ;) WOW! Your xmas skin is awesome! I hope everyone gets christmas skins this year, its my favorite holiday, I am so the kid when the holidays roll around. I love it, Great job! Now let me hurry up and wrap it back up before anyone notices.
Can't wait to see the new skins! I peeked along with everyone else!
omg...just seen the Christmas skin....niiiice.
Did you model for it?....:P
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September 20, 2004
lush-TASTIC!
Remember the entry I wrote last week, featuring Lush Cosmetics in juxtaposition to nasty big corporate conglomerates who have lost sight of their customers among other things?
Well, right now I'm a little speechless... you see, I had been busy figuring out what I wanted to buy from Lush, which inspired the post. Then I sent the lush.au team a link to said post, mainly cos I'm a pr/marketing girl myself and I like to know when I'm spanking my target audience in a manner that pleases them. I figured they would too.
I was right. And apparently they liked it.
In fact, they liked it so much that when they packed up my order, they thought to drop a little something (with a 5ml perfume instead of the 30ml in the link) in the box along with everything else!
*does cartwheels around the house*
THANK YOU Lush! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! Now there's a company who knows how to do business - by keeping their customers happy (and not just with their heavenly aromatherapy). I know I'll certainly be telling more people in Adelaide to start ordering online. And it's not like they had to convince me. I was already a loyal customer. The products are unique and quite frankly sell themselves.
And if that's not enough to convince you of their coolness, no-one can resist a company with hilariously in-depth answers to questions like "Why did Nostradamus get it wrong and how far out do you think he was?", "Which dog has the deepest woof?", "How do you explain the current slump in the American economy?", and "Are you lot bonkers or what?" in their FAQ.
See? Kewler than Fonzie.
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you lucky thing, i love Lush! Dida is more than a bit jealous! Next time you put an order in, let me know and we can split shipping costs!
that rocks. i am so jealous.
Oh man! I love Lush! You are so lucky! I need to get some more Lush.
I found Lush last week. I found them in a very big way, and now my house is very girlie-scented and overwhelming.
How could I have lived all these years without Lush? Isn't there some law prohibiting that?
So glad we have another favorite in common, babe.
Wow! Talk about a spiffy way to thank you for the positive referrals! That is absolutely awesome.
Congratulations!! Now I have to find out if Lush is an Aussie-only thing, or if we "over here" can get 'em too.
Free crap is always a good thing! Kewler than Fonzie - heh heh that was one of my favorite shows.
dida: if you keep speaking in the third person, goldie is going to get totally weirded out. And sure, splitting delivery charges always works for me ;).
Jules and Ash: yay! more sisters in Lush!
Helen: darls, it's almost disturbing how much we have in common sometimes *laughs*. just goes to show how similar we all are, no matter how many miles divide us =D
Rose: there most certainly is Lush available in your part of the world - check out their site.
Lori: I LOVE HAPPY DAYS!
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Anyone? ...Bueller? Because I seem to have gotten just a wee bit excited about our 22 degree C weather yesterday and overdosed on the ole sunshine. Hmmm. Yes.
It was worth it though. Several of my friends gave the annual City to Bay Fun Run a go in the morning, and although I piked cos I've been sick last week (that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it), I joined them to celebrate my friend Tanya's (of the now-retired Tanya's Harp fame) birthday on the beach. Yum!
However due to the fact that a) on Saturday during my retail therapy session, I had procured the very same blue babydoll top as seen on the mannequin in this shot, and b) the ambient temperature outside was just about at 'strip off n get sexy' level... well, I had no choice but to expose some flesh of the shoulder and decolletage variety. I mean, come on!
Ergo, I am now suffering for my overindulgence. But it's allll good. Between Port Power winning their semi-final (Aussie Rules footy, dontcha know. It has just about religious status here) and today's 26 degree effort from the weather gods, everyone was in a good mood at work today. So I wasn't going to let a little sunburn piss me off. =D
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eeeek! Way cute top! I've been living in those all summer long!
I know, aren't they fabulous? you can have one big fat day, all summer long.
now all I need is a babydoll bathing suit...
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September 19, 2004
it's that time again
ahhh! mikey gave me fair warning, but I read this entry anyway.
And what am I talking about? Survivor, of course. It starts Tuesday night for us Aussies. So we'll officially be 5 days behind devotees in the US.
*note to self: tread carefully 'round mikey's for the next few months* (even though he's always very diligent with his extended entries. I just suffer from an extreme lack of willpower)
Although I gotta say... am I the only one who's a little Survivor-ed out? This will technically be the third series in 12 months after all. Better watch out there Mark Burnett. All this Surviving and Firing. The reality gravy train's gonna pull into the terminus sometime very soon, Marky, especially if The Donald keeps on using The Apprentice as one big pimpage-vehicle for his Trumpire. And then where will you be, hmmm? Up some some 'desert' island's creek with out a paddle? ...with your own helicopter waiting to rescue you?
/slight overreaction
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I'll probably watch Survivor for as long as they make it, unless they do something drastically wrong in one of the series. I doubt they will - they've found a formula that's worked for them so far, so I'll guess they'll stick to it! Yay Survivor! Can't wait till Tuesday :)
PS Note my new blog address!
This will be my first survivor actually. I am always saying that I am going to watch it each season but I never do. I forced myself last Thurs so I am hoping to stick with it.
I've been Surviver-ed out since the damn thing started. I'm hoping that people will get ahold of themselves soon and just people watch if they want reality TV. Don't take over my television to watch people do stupid things. Please, just go to the mall.
yeah I'm getting pretty tired of it myself.
"reality" shows are only as interesting as the people they pick... and it seems like they're picking out of a formula, because everybody on there is pretty damned boring so far. a few nice racks, but that's really it. i'll probably watch one more episode to see if there'll be anyone worth rooting for.
or, to see if Eliza's top falls off.
mikey: ...a good a reason as any to keep watching, I agree. Recall Heidi and Jenna for example. They took it all off for only peanut butter and chocolate... who knows what will cause Eliza's top to travel south?
pls like to join this site i love it pls keep me in
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b-grade-pulp-movie scream
General daily overview: The Moon enters optimistic Sagittarius at 10:29 am EDT(US), symbolizing our need to extend ourselves beyond current limitations. There are weird undercurrents, however, that make things a bit tilted. With intellectual Mercury in an annoying aspect of adjustment to spacey Neptune, it is difficult to bring logical thoughts to conclusion. Even a good idea that seems well-developed can end up going nowhere. Try to remain open to unexpected twists of fate. The most important things can happen for no apparent reason.
Erm OK. It's not like there haven't been any 'twists of fate'
come my way in the last 6 months. Heh. So I guess I'll just roll with the punches.
Other than Blogrolling's issues slightly (and somewhat surprisingly) hampering my regular surfing (who knew I depended so on my 'recently updated' list?! 'Goldmember' indeed.) it's rather quiet round here.
Chocolate has been consumed as required. Therapy of the retail variety has been undertaken. And downright raunchy $9 Long Island Iced Teas were imbibed at the Banque on more than one occasion (alcoholic-ear-infection-therapy is most effective). In fact, if you're an Adelaide party person partial to a quality drink that's kind to your hip pocket, you'd be hard pressed to find a better cocktail deal anywhere in the city. Get yer ass to the Banque, stat. I adore the place. It's where everybody kows my name.
Anything fateful happening out there with you lot? C'mon. Tell aunty goldie.
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this whole not drinking thing is getting a bit frustrating! especially with posts like that, my dear!
Let's see:
Jason got fired.
Maine got married.
Barndon started a web music store.
I tried bean thread for the first time.
Yeah, that's about it.
I went on a blind date, but the person was not blind, and not the person I thought I was gona date, but I will post what happened on my blog when blogrolling fixes it's probems so everybody sees I updated my blog.
I hope you are having a nice weekend, goldie!
September 19th is International Talk Like a Pirate Day.
By which I mean YARRR! I've got a plank for ye, me fine buxom wench!
Hmmm - I have a cold and feel quite rotten at the moment... otherwise I'm simply working way to much. Yeah I lead such an exciting life... (hey - stop snoring over there!)
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September 17, 2004
slippin' in my sexy side
Stolen from the Cherry blossom:
Betty Boop
Who 's Your Inner Sexy Cartoon Chick ?
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Hmmm. I can live with that. However I'm still incensed they used Wilma Flintsone as one of their other Sexy Cartoon Chicks. You think they would have at least gone with Pebbles.
UPDATE: yep G-Fry, Pebbles and Bam Bam grew up and had their own cartoons as Harvey said. And she was a lil hottie!
The other options included Jess Rabbit (who certainly IS drawn that way) and Daphne from Scooby Doo, who I always thought was a bit of a hornbag really, behind all that mysteriousness of course. However I can't remember the other one... obviously she wasn't any good.
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Isn't Pebbles a baby? That's a little weird. If you're gonna go with a sexy cartoon character, it's gotta be Jessica Rabbit from Who Framed Roger Rabbit. Hells yeah.
dang, it says this quiz isn't open to the public. *pout*
Pebbles grew up & had her own cartoon for a while, so she's a legitimate target for horniness at that point.
And I second the motion on Jessica Rabbit. Despite her claims to the contrary, she really *is* bad :-)
my parents used to call me Pebbles when I was a little kid, probably had more to do with my red hair than any potential they thought I had for horniness!
Dida - can you please post pictures of you and your horny red hair? ;-)
I got Tinkerbell. The description was right but Tinkerbell?? Ah well.
since you asked so nicely ;)
I'm not sure that my hair looks terribly horny in this photo, but it's the best I've got at the moment!
okay, there is supposed to be a picture there... but it's not showing up! this is the address anyway...
http://www.luminoustimes.net/photos/candi12.jpg
you sexy strawberry blonde, dida.
*rooowwwlll*
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September 15, 2004
one day at a time
You know, if you keep your eyes peeled, you can learn at least one new thing each and every day.
Today I took advantage of my sick day off work to take my sister CY to her radiotherapy treatment, and I was lucky enough to learn several new things:
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- Siemens make more electronic 'gadgets' than just mobile phones.
- Matters of the heart will always separate your true friends from your acquaintances, especially if you've fallen in love with your ex-boyfriend's best friend. It doesn't matter if you have malignant cancer and therefore have changed your outlook on life to accomodate this fact.
- Corollary: these people always have an opinion and don't seem to care who it hurts or how short-sighted they're being. Also they don't seem to realise that their opinion and $2.50 will buy them a cup of coffee. Maybe.
- It apparently takes at least 6 kinds of chocolate a day to help fight anaplastic astrocytomas. At last count at my mum's place, there were 2 half-eaten family blocks of Cadbury's Three Wishes, a family block of Milky Way Coconut Rough, an untouched family block of Cadbury Dairy Milk, 3 packets of unopened Tim Tams, and probably a Mother's Day sized box of Dairy Milk Tray. Oh. And a packets of handmade chocolate-dipped shortbread bikkies shaped like hearts. One of the nurse's at the radiotherapy centre makes them :).
- That my sister's laugh can be heard down the other side of the radiotherapy ward, even when she's shut up in a room designed to stop even the smallest radioactive particle from leaking.
Here's to living life folks. ~cheers~
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When stuff like this happens it really does teach the value of the smallest thing doesn't it?
as they say it's always the little things that make the biggest differences
It's great that your sister's laugh penetrates the walls designed to keep radioactive particles from spreading! There's nothing like laughter to brighten someone's day. Hope all well with CY!
It's great that your sister's laugh penetrates the walls designed to keep radioactive particles from spreading! There's nothing like laughter to brighten someone's day. Hope all is well with CY!
Bless your sister! A woman's laughter is the chimes in God's orchestra :-)
Off-topic, I'm thinking you & I need to do a candy bar exchange. We don't have anything like Tim-Tams in the States :-)
you gotta love anyone with a laugh that powerful. that's just awesome.
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harvey's birthday wishlist...
...was simple.
I'm getting old. I'm falling apart. The only thing that can save me is boobie pictures. If you post them at your blog, I'll link you on Wednesday.
Well Harv, I can hardly ignore that, can I! Here's your boobie picture, stat.
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Please ignore the fact that this was taken at 2am and I was kinda falling out of my strapless bra. Thanks.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HARV! Many naughty returns.
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why, oh, WHY would we want to ignore the fact that you're falling out of your strapless bra?!?!?
...mikey darl, mainly cos it makes my boobies look lumpy, a personal bugbear o' mine.
Must have smooth boobies! Except for the accepted protrusions, o'course.
Naughty, naughty Goldie!! Now I'm gonna have to search for some boobie pics and send to Harv!
I like when my boobs look nice!!! LOL!!!
woo hoo! yeah that's what I'm talking about! :-D
:) she said protrusions.
I love boobies and today, it feels like my birthday too.
Well, I never thought I'd see the day...or the cleavage for that matter...thanks for making my day too Goldie!!
Oh Goldielen, My birthday is coming up in October. I hope I'll get my own set of prints.
Ev casts "Jealous Bastard" on Harv for 400 hp damage.
You are such a hottie! You go!
Consider all that ignored. You do know you'll get 600 comments on this post don't you?...:P
Gee, all you have to do is ask??? I have a big birthday coming up next month (I'll have survived 40 trips around the sun), maybe I should ask for something too!!! I don't have the sad, puppy-dog eyes, though, so I may not get this kind of response...
Thanks guys ::blush:: :)
Lordy Harv, see what I've got myself into? Plus I gave you that mars bar cheesecake recipe. I'd better be gettin' something outta this ;P.
Antgrad stole my comment...
This just reaffirms the comment I made many, many moons ago. I think I remember some of it... "Goldie is an exceedingly-attractive Australian blogger."
That "live preview" thing is kind of creeping me out...
[opens mouth]
[makes various unitelligible gibbering noises]
[closes mouth]
[wipes drool]
[finds voice & says in a hoarse whisper...]
Thank you, Goldie... thank you.
By the way, I'm intending to include a little something for the girls in the round-up. So, assuming you enjoy chest fur, you'll be rewarded.
If not, you'll just be grossed out, so use your best judgment ;-)
I'm drooling too.
But it's quite possible it's because I've had no sleep, I'm in a horrible mood and fucktards won't die horrible painful deaths.
...damn, Goldie... *whew*.... oh, and by the way, October 14th is MY B-day... heh....
Hell yes. Now that's the gift that keeps on giving.
oh geezus. your boobs look great, your face looks great, your face looks great. wah wah wah lumpy whatever!
Can't wait for my birthday to come around :) Many thanks for that reat, and to Harv too!
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September 14, 2004
well i knew i was sick
...but this isn't ridiculous at all.
Doctor Unheimlich has diagnosed me with Goldieitis |
Cause: | allergy to civet cats |
Symptoms: | mild hypothermia, floating hair, seeing dead people, photophobia |
Cure: | infect someone else |
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::cough::
::infect::
OK, I should be all better now.
Although no one could accuse me of photophobia. *ahem*
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At first glance, I thought that said "Goldie's tits". Good thing I reread that. Ahem. Yes. Noone would want to see that here. Right? Right?
nope. except it's Harvey's birthday and I promised him some boobies. hmmm.
oh. and does anyone know what a civet cat is?
http://cats.about.com/cs/basichealth/a/civetcat_2.htm
Civet Cats. Anything you could possibly want to know.
I was hoping for boobies, but I guess I'll settle for a communicable disease :-/
If nothing else, send me a link to that picture of you & your sisters. That was pretty boobie-riffic :-)
Dontcha just hate it when your hair floats? I know when that happens I leave work immediately.
(What in the world is floating hair?!?!)
I see stupid people all the time - I wonder what that means?!?
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September 13, 2004
I know you wanna snog me...
I'm officially sick. Isn't that great?
No, really. I mean it. It's fantastic. You see, I've been feeling like shit for weeks. Kinda fluey, swollen in the neck, and my sinuses have been giving me hell. Plus my ears felt funny. No, I can't describe it any better than that. Believe me, I tried.
But none of it was enough to go bother the doctor with. Hey, we all feel fluey at times. It's probably hayfever (common as sheep among us Aussies). Nothing to make a fuss about.
Then the Disturbing Symptom developed. You know what I mean. Waves of nausea are never a good thing.
So off I trotted to the doc, where I was given the uber-satisfying diagnosis of Nasty Ear Infection. One worth two prescriptions of double strength, horse-pill-sized penicillin tablets. One where I can actually say to any doubters, "Look! I wasn't whining about nothing for the past few weeks! Look at my horse pills. Look how big and anti-bacterial they are!"
I feel so damn justified right now =D.
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awww im sorry i didnt know you were feeling ill...get better soon, ok?
Normally I give hugs to comfort, but...
On second thought, why not? I've got a healthy immune system...
{hug}
Better? :-)
Ick! I thought it was just us over here getting sick like crazy!
I hope you feel better soon!
I'd hate to say that I'm glad that you're sick, but you seem somewhat relieved by it. Oh well! Hope you get to feeling better soon and your horse-sized penicillan pills cure all your aches and pains!
Ugh. Feel better soon! Being sick is really not that fun...
hope you feel better soon! doesn't it feel great to be vindicated! i love it.
Dude! We're falling apart here in blogland!
Those pills are the best, hard to swallow and they double as something to throw if the need arises
I'm sorry that you feel sick, Goldie!
When I get sick my mom gives me her remedy of hot sauce and Sprite mix togeter, and it works, but you have to have strong stomache and lots of toilet paper! The last time I drank it I farted alot that it was so bad that my hamster Rocky was holding his nose, but I felt better.
I hope you get well soon, Goldie!
Damn! You can make me laugh about the most serious shit. I hope you can get those horse pills down your throat and start to feel better soon. *hugs*
Yeah Gary gave it to me.
I feel nasty gross blah.. and not much like working.
PS I love this Shag skin. It bloody rocks!
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loving thoughts
After my time off, I'm starting to remember why I loved the internet, and particularly blogging, again.
I love that I can meet people like this in a far off land who have similar views and ideas to me.
I love that I can wake up and find a brand new, simply beautiful skin layout just waiting to surprise me from this chick or this chick.\
And I love that this guy has me chuckling at 6.30 in the morning (no mean feat, I assure you) because he linked to a site called 'Junk Food News' (because junk food obviously requires its own news page) in a comment on this entry. And Harv, yes a Breakaway is not unlike a KitKat (which we have here also). There's a version of the Breakaway in a format similar to the chunky KitKat. However, where Breakaway beats KitKat hands down is in the amount of chocolate surrounding the wafers in the big blocked version. No contest.
See? And I love that can deconstruct chocolate online and people may actually agree with me.
Case closed. I'm back.
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... and we couldn't be happier :)
And it's not just the amount of chocolate, but also the quality - that's very important you know! I like Kit Kats but I don't like the Kit Kat Chunky - the chocolate just isn't good enough. Breakaway, however... Cadbury chocolate is the best! Hmmm... that's way too long a comment about chocolate but oh well.
I missed you! It's nice to have you back. I like visiting the ol' DQ!
& I love that you are blogging again as it gives me something interesting to read!
I like Kit Kats, but my favorite is Suzi Q's!
We have lots of junk food in our frigerator, but if we touch my moms Twinkies we're dead!
I'm happy that you are back, Goldie, and I hope you had a nice weekend!
Cadbury vs. Nestle?
Cadbury :-)
Fuckin' a. Goldie's back for good. I'm so happy!
No nod for me?? Come on! Toss a girl a bone here!
:)
Yes, you are back!
And many rejoiced!!!
XLNT, good to hear Aussie Gurl.
Cheers.
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September 12, 2004
in memoriam
There are a few posts around the place on exactly where people were when they heard about 9-11.
I remember getting a call at about 11.15 pm (Aussie time) that night from a good friend saying "Ohmigod, ohmigod! They've flown into the World Trade Centre in New York!".
You might kill me for this, but the next thing I thought was "...so?". Really. Which I think was more a testament to all the movies and television I'd seen documenting disasters. It truly didn't feel real to me, and I couldn't understand what all the fuss was about.
It didn't help that I happened to be snogging away in the back corner of Spats Cafe on my second date with my now-husband.
In fact it didn't hit me at all until I got home later that night and saw the horrific images on the news... images of the planes careering straight into the buildings. Of the people trapped inside jumping resignedly to their deaths, rather than waiting helplessly to be crushed or consumed by fire. Of the firefighters who charged in fearlessly to save the lives of those who couldn't help themselves, and ended up sacrificing their own.
Even in a country thousands of miles away, we'll never forget.
We keep a huge piece of broadsheet newsprint, a full colour panorama of the massacre, tacked up on our office wall to remind us of those qualities that separate us from the animals: compassion, conscience, tolerance and intelligence. And regret.
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I posted about what I was doing that morning as well.
I think it's interesting to hear the perspective of someone who is not from the USA on 9/11. I had never really thought about how it might have impacted the rest of the world.
*hugs* Thanks for the link hun. I agree with Kelly, it's always interesting to read about 9/11 from someone from another country. Terrorism is something that every country should be concerned about.
If there is a hell, I'll probably burn in it for what I am about to write....
When I found out about 9/11, I didn't care. All I was worried about was the next target and beginning my preparation for apocolypse. The time when all my training and wasted weekends would come to the true fruition of its nature. Alas, no further strike came. No, what happened is what I predicted. The American (EVIL) Gov't and the Media turned what was a tragic event and turned it into a goddamned circus, with this sense of fake revere that in any other situation would be called trite. Bush used 9/11 to make himself seem great and SINCE has continued to use it almost THREE YEARS LATER.
But I'm not completely heartless. I recognize that many people of all walks of life died that day in a most tragic way. Many everyday heros gave their lives to do what damage control possible. That does strike a cord with me, but make no mistake America brought the terrorists to our own door step by sticking our great big noses where they don't belong. What is worse is that we could have avoided all of the loss of life surrounding 9/11, if we had only been more active in peaceful resolutions to global conflicts.
Sorry, Goldelen. I've avoided the subject because of this very reason. Sorry, Goldelen's readers, I didn't mean to turn her site into a political debate. Sorry, America, I still wish I was from somewhere else. Any countries want to take in a poor cynical curmudgeon with no religious beliefs or acceptable social value?
Dial 1-800-WE-LUV-EV.
Don't worry, Ev, the folks who understand the implications of the attack will do what's necessary whether you know why they're doing it or not.
By the way, Ev, what did those school children in Russia do to deserve THEIR fate?
Goldie - Thanks, hun, you're a sweetie. And truth be told, I felt the same way about Bali. I didn't understand at first, but when I saw the pictures... it was all too clear.
9/11 affected all persons around the world . . . lord knows it seemed very surreal to me, at the time, when I first heard about it (on the radio on my drive into work that morning).
We were paralyzed at work that day. Thanks for sharing your story.
Harvey-
Those kids didn't do anything to deserve what happened. And the innocent victims in the Towers didn't deserve it either. But in the more abstract sense as an American, I have the right to question the motives of a government that makes a habit of getting involved in situations where we don't belong. To clarify, I don't feel that victims of 9/11 or any other terrorist attack are the responsible parties. I DO however feel that in the global sense America acts like a group of 5 year olds. And frankly, Harvey, I'm not sure you caught the whole meaning of my comment. We ASSUME as a country that our way is right and that there is no other possible way. Moreover, we have a religious fanatic running our country, who by the way, didn't win the popular election.
Goldie, I'm sorry for hijacking your comments with my bullshit ideas. Harvey, if you or anyone else want to continue this discussion, feel free to email me.
That's fine Ev, go for your life.
Just because I choose to keep politics out of my posts doesn't mean you shouldn't discuss them in the comments. i welcome robust debate, for all that I might seem to be a fence sitter ;).
Actually, I don't get involved in politics much, particularly american politics because I know little about it, and choose not to delve further.
Harvey: thanks for rememebring Bali! Even now it has become somewhat of a pilgrimage for the Aussies who choose to travel there. Apparently there are messages all over the ruined walls of sorrow and regret. The Aussie embassy in Jakarta was bombed last week also. It was mainly locals killed, very few Aussies, but the message was loud and clear to us - stop helping the war on terror, and keep your tourists out of our country.
Funnily enough, most of the Aussies stayed where they were in Indonesia over the weekend. The airlines offered refunds and changeovers but only about 10% took them up. I don't know if that's a cultural thing, a desensitsation thing or a denial thing. I can say that us Aussies take a bit to get rattled, so...
Evan - true, Bush didn't win the popular election. But the national popular total doesn't matter & never has. It's all about the electoral college results, both parties knew that going in, and designed their strategies around it. It's an odd little quirk that lets someone win without a national majority of the popular vote, but it *does* serve to keep the small-population states from becoming irrelevant.
And yeah, I'm missing your point. You're saying that the American government deserved to have its citizens killed, but the citizens themselves didn't deserve to die?
Odd combination of ideas...
Anyway, what, specifically, did America do to deserve this? I'm at a loss to come up with a crime for which this is a just punishment.
Goldie - thank YOU for having a Prime Minister with courage :-)
As I once posted at your site:
"Australians are strong, loyal, trustworthy, and fierce fighters. If for some unimaginable reason you don't own a gun, consider carrying an Australian in your holster instead."
"thank YOU for having a Prime Minister with courage"
yeah it takes a lot of courage to blindly follow an idiot to war for convaluted reasons ;)
(no offense, harv)
oh and i loved the whitehouse's response to the Australian embassy bombing in Jakarta too: http://www.whitehouse.gov/news/releases/2004/09/20040909-2.html
(it's riiiight down the bottom)
PEACE
None taken.
Although I'm not sure what you mean by "convoluted".
Pretty simple, really. The murderous poison of Islamism must be destroyed so that the citizens of civilized nations don't have to live under threat from organized terrorism.
yeah lets kill those sand niggers for jesus!
G - a very enlightened, sensitive and compassionate way of phrasing it. However, as long as terrorists and their supporters wind up dead or civilized, I don't care what you call them.
Evan - Um... the letter "S" in Morse Code?
No. I WAS speechless at G's comment. How blatanly racist.
I'm hoping he was being sarcastic. Really.
Of course I was being sarcastic. But that's my impression fo your hawks out there! I was trying to use humour to point out the stupidity of the war mongerers points of view... I thought we were still prentending this war was NOT about religious oppression and oil?
...and if u endorse killing "terrorists" Harv then did you endorse the 9/11 attacks? Coz the only country to ever be tried by the UN for STATE SPONSORED TERRORSIM is the good old US of A. So was it therefore justified to kill all those "terrorists" on 9/11? According to your logic, sure! Or don't you think for yourself, just follow O'Reilly and Fox News Channel?
Guys, I just want peace. I dont wanna turn this into a big shit storm. I just hate the idea of my country and the rest of the RICH, PRIVILEDGED WEST bombing the living shit out of a medieval country whose population had done nothing to provoke it. WTF aint the US chasing Osama? I know it SOUNDS kinda like Saddam.. but come on!?
Oridinary Iraqi's did as much to deserve their deaths as the population of the two towers. It's not fair for any innocents to die, regardless of their RELIGION or place of BIRTH.
It's 2004 guys, lets EVOLVE.
PEACE :)
Have been thinking about your "convert them or kill them" policy there Harvs... reminds me a lot of a policy a group had in the 1930s regarding ppl of Jewish or Slavic descent... what were they called? Oh yeah: The Nazi Party - but weren't they called 'The New World Order' for a while too?
The Harv/US's "lets kill everyone who wont change to be like us" opinon is one of the main reason every other country in the world is so wary of our Super Power. Makes you think "Who would Jesus bomb?"
Oh, gotta love the US. Seriously, you gotta, or they'll get you!
G - Thanks for being smarter and more eloquent than I could ever be.
I'm not advocating killing people for their heritage. I'm not advocating killing them for their religion, either. I have no problem with the majority of Muslims who just want to live their lives in peace.
But the ones who claim that their religion requires them to kill those who don't believe in Allah? I want them dead before they can do any damage. Or they can convert to a more civilized form of Islam. I don't care which.
I also don't care who kills them. It doesn't HAVE to be the US. If other countries would keep their populace of murders in check, I'd be content with that. But if they're not going to take the responsibility on themselves, then I guess it's up to the US to go in and kill the terrorists for them.
"I have no problem with the majority of Muslims who just want to live their lives in peace"
Yeah unfortunately, the US military is murdering this people en masse at the moment, under the pretence that they're protecting you from the Saudi Arabian hijackers of September 2001.... uh... you're still swallowing this!!?!??!
All the best to you Harvs... here's hoping your Government kills allllll the people you want killed, the way you want them killed and I sincerely hope their deaths make you and your family feel much safer and secure at home. I know I'll be watching the body count rise in sychronisation with my own feelings of smug self-satisfaction and security...
*kisses*
Wait... so you're saying the US military is deliberately *targeting* peaceful muslims?
Interesting.
Anyway, thanks for wishing me stacks of dead terrorist bodies. I'm hope they make a pile of them 1365 feet tall.
Twice.
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niche markets and the product-deprived girl
I'm a chick (at least I was last time I checked). And as chicks the world over will attest to, we love shopping.
In fact, I don't think love is a strong enough word. I ADORE shopping. I CRAVE it. I crave the cleansing, cathartic effect it has on me as I spot, select, single out, stamp my claim and finally secure the items of my desire. The only way to get closer to serotonin heaven would be shopping with a block of Cadbury Breakaway clamped firmly in hand.
Yes, shopping is an id-like, tribal throwback thing for females. An extension of the hunter-gatherer instinct just crying out for expression in today's modern world.
Being an Aussie chick, and a summer-lovin' one at that, I require both clothing of a reasonably gorgeous nature, and enough bathroom paraphenalia to keep me sweetly-smelling and smoothly-sloughed throughout the entire summer season.
As you can see, my preferred way of achieving the latter is via Lush Cosmetics. All natural, preservative free, no animals, and they smell like heaven. As we don't have a Lush in Adelaide (anymore), I've had to resort to either ordering it online, or stocking up big on trips to Melbourne and Sydney.
So imagine my absolute delight at discovering (through sphinxy's product whoring, actually, check out the skin-so-named) that Lush have partnered up with Amazon in their brand new Beauty shop. At last! A path to wish-list heaven!
Or so I thought.
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...imagine my absolute horror at discovering that Amazon don't ship Lush (and presumably Beauty in general) to Aussie yet. Zip. Zilch. Nada.
Now. This provides a nice segue into a particular bug-bear of mine, namely Amazon and their severe lack of Aussie-shopness.
Now you might not like Amazon. There are plenty of people who don't. But for us poor product-deprived Aussie chicks, it provides some essential stuff we really can't get anywhere else (wish I could think of an example here but I can't), and as it expands, it seems to be doing more and more of it all in the one place. Fabuloso!
But I'm limited by what they'll actually ship to me out here in the antipodoean colonies. I know there's only 20 million of us compared to 300 million Americans and lord knows how many Brits, but come on. It's not hard to set up an Aussie arm. Other sites do it. And Lush actually has an online catalogue here in Aus. Wouldn't it be incredibly easy for Amazon to offer Lush to us Aussie chicks that way?
An added bonus is the fact that us Aussies are one of the most 'online' populations per capita in the world, with 62% of us online as at 12 months ago, and the number always increasing. One could reasonably assume that 50% of those are female. Who love to shop.
Hello? Lush has heard us. But is anyone listening out there in Amazon's online-shopping-land yet?
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U gurls and your shopping, especially for shoes. ;)
Then again I'm no saint, 5 minutes in Guitar Centre and it's all over.
Cheers.
hehehe... my boy loves music and electronic gadgets too curator. and magazine shops. and art stores. in fact, I reckon he's worse than me for shopping!
Wot? No Lush in Adelaide anymore? Why not?
We have two here in Auckland - one ten minutes walk from Uni :) Lucky (smooth) me!
I lurve Lush's Gumback Express -I'm smoother than a smoothie baby after a scrub down with a handful of that lovely stuff...
Nope Fi, no more Lush here! There used to be a store in Marion, but it must have gone belly-up due to poor sales (Adelaide folk can be a tough nut to crack). It's such a shame cos I just adore them :(.
We have one of the black magic solid massage bars and it's just heavenly...
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September 11, 2004
making a grand entrance
I have a couple of different sides to me. Sometimes it causes problems, but mainly it just means I get enough variety in my day to keep me interested.
For example, the side with a little more devil in it had certain ideas for my first three skins: flirty, cheeky, fun yet classic.
And the side with a little more halo adores this classy new creation by Julie of blogmoxie: clean, stylish and downright glam.
Yep. Now I really do have something to keep both the horns and the halos happy.
You've outdone yourself Julie. And so quickly too! Thanks to the moxie team for such fabulous service - you girls sure know how to run a business!
And if you wanna get some moxie, now is the best time to do it with this fabulous holiday special. I can hardly wait to see what Julie comes up with for my holiday request...
*cheeky grin*
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It's that time again...
Excerpt: Time for some good ol' fashion BlogMoxie pimpin'. First we have Goldie. Goldie asked for a classy, vintage, thirties sexy looking skin. Next is James. James wanted a new skin with colors to match his homepage using the artwork of Gustave DorÃ...
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Holy pants, Batman! This is effin gorgeous!
(Hiya, Helen sent me over!)
Thanks Goldie. I'm so happy you like it.
oooh, wow, there are funky backgrounds in my comment box!
*swirls around*...
By the way the comments are broken. I use "whipped" and your comments keep taking me to this "classy" skin.
i want my whipped! everything i click is taking me back to this pink crap. save me!!!
Now now Jason, I know a lot of boys are intolerant of pink, but really! ;)
Don't worry, I've asked Julie to look into it!
it's absolutely gorgeous!
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the importance of a good plan
Hey, you know all that stuff I was gonna get done today?
Well. Blogs were surfed, tea was drunk, dressing gown was inhabited, Buggles was be-tyred... and that's about it.
*cheerful grin*
No wonder I feel so good.
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ah, wish I had one of those days, I'm jealous!
I have so many days planned out with loads of stuff to do yet I still manage to just surf blogs and twiddle design plates too!
Thats why it usually takes me a week to just tidy my bedroom because it houses my computer!!
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September 10, 2004
train tracks, train tracks!
Lovely Helen wrote a beautiful entry the other day on how many ages she can feel in a single day. I must say I know the feeling.
Especially since I went to the dentist on Wednesday morning, and was instantly transported back to being 13 years old when he uttered some fateful words:
"You need to have your braces put back on again."
Yep, that's right. Three thousand bucks and 18 months of a ripped up mouth and continuous pain (of both the physical and insecure-teenaged-emotional kind) have apparently slipped right down the drain.
It got even weirder when I rang my old ortho, and when I told the receptionist my maiden name she actually remembered who I was. Fifteen years on.
Now don't get me wrong - I don't look like Austin Powers or anything, but it's got to the point where I can't get my bottom teeth clean, and my gums are exacting revenge on me for not keeping their living quarters spic and span.
I would go with invisalign (ala Tom Cruise), but with a six to eight thousand dollar hit to the hip pocket and no insurance willing to cover it, it's not worth it. Looks like the good ole clear plastic brackets for me if I want some dosh back from the insurers. Although I gotta say, the ortho should be giving me this treatment for free in my opinion!
So. Anyone else out there who has embraced the archwire in adulthood?
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I should have had braces when I was 10, but my mum didn't let me because she thought it would be too painful or something, so I didn't. I wish I'd had them then, because it'd be over with by now! In adulthood, there have been a few doctors or dentists who have said I should have them... I'm getting bloody sick of hearing it - if I wanted them now, I'd get them!! I have thought about doing it, but I always decide not to in the end.
I didn't get braces till I was 17 - yep high school senior prom with braces. I got them off when I was 19. I also had jaw surgery in between - fun. Just remember a few things...
Wax will become your best friend
Keep a toothbrush and floss in your purse
Always remember to eat before you go on your visits - your mouth will be sore and you won't want to eat afterwards
I had braces as a child, and you know...I really need them again on my upper teeth, unless the buck-toothed rabbit look ever comes back into fashion again...:(
I did the braces thing as a kid. Not particularly well mind you, some of what my ortho was attempting to occomplish didn't take. I would rather the invisilign if I have to go back. Unfortunately, both the Missus and I have bigger problems: severly receding gums. Damnit, when I was a kid they told us to brush hard, but now they tell me to be soft. I'll have to get a gingiva transplant sometime soon. Wanna trade mouth problems?
I've always needed braces.....but i will never get them, I refuse too. :)
I can beat you all. My mother..MOTHER..works at the dentists office. So, not only did I suffer at the hands of the bastard physcian wanna-be, but at the hands of my mother as well.
Talk about trust issues. I never had braces. I had a retainer and I fucking hated it. Sure, it wasn't painful, but many a time was the goddamned thing dropped in the trash. Yeah, Yeah we washed it off, but Goddamnit that thing was in the trash and now it's in my mouth.
Although, there are worse things that could be in my mouth, but at the time as a teen I would have never thought of them. Nay, Only now as an adult with a ridiculous obsession with sex (will I ever grow out of it?), I realize how little scarring the trash retainer would provide.
I've never had them, but I want them. Ok, maybe need is a better word. My top teeth are fine, but my bottom teeth could use the work. My sister had them when she was 19.
Like Lori, I had braces at the end of high school, and jaw surgery just after. I missed out on our formal (the equivalent of a prom) because of the operation. It was either that, or wait another 8 months before I'd be able to have to operation. Considering I didn't want to do it in the middle of Uni, and I didn't like most of the high school kids, I opted to get it over and done with.
And now my bottom teeth are warped again, so like you Helen, I'm sure I'd be advised to get braces again if I went to the dentist. I just don't care anymore though, I can eat fine, so I'll put up with them.
PS: Hi! *waves* *grin* Nice place you've got here :)
Yup. I had to have braces on after I had my wisdom teeth removed and I am quite a bit older than you. In fact my 18 months of purgatory only finished in July and IK now have little wires welded to the back of my teeth and little plastic things like a mouthguard to wear at night.
Horrible, horrible things.
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did someone say relax and take it easy?
Ahhh... nothing like a free day off. A day where I can do absolutely anything I want. A day in which I can be a completely lazy-assed bitch and absolutely no one will care.
Surf blogs all day? Yep! Tweak my new templates so they're just right? Yep! Sit round in my fluffy duck dressing gown til 4pm, drinking cup after cup of strong tea? You betcha baby!
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...that is, of course, after I go to the doctor for new prescriptions for my anxiety and asthma. And to Bunnings for the spring onions they didn't have last week, and for the weed killer I forgot to buy. And to the tyre shop to replace Buggles' balding tyres (they should make Rogaine for cars). And after I write an application for the rather snazzy job I saw in Saturday's paper. Not to mention clean up the bedroom, as my warbrobe seems to consist of the walk-in robe and about 1/3 of the carpet.
Yep. Nice quiet day off for this lil ole dramaqueen.
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Ahhh.... Bunnings. Finally I find a blog reference I can relate to. Plan to spend some time (and no doubt, a great deal of money) there myself on the weekend.
Friends of mine have a theory... If you visit Bunnings once on a weekend, you are destined to spend at least $50, otherwise you will return at least twice more to pick up the things you forgot to get the first time. So true.....
"Rogaine for cars"
*giggle* :-)
Sometimes I don't even go outside on my days off but now that summer is winding down, I'm looking for every opportunity to be outdoors.
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September 09, 2004
well when you put it like that
From Rob Brezsny's weekly astrology newsletter:
GEMINI (May 21-June 20): If you believe your body is inherently sinful or if you're offended by references to your private parts, stop reading now.
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Still here? Good. The fact is, dear Gemini, that this is a perfect time to celebrate, explore, and reinvent your relationship with your genitals. It's your sacred duty to strip away every negative association about them that you may have acquired in the past. Do whatever it takes to arrive at the understanding that your sexual organs are among the most sublime gifts the Divine Creator has given you. Have fun with them, worship them, teach them greater discipline, and in general lift them to the exalted state they deserve.
Well, OK Rob. But only cos you told me it was ok. And that I won't go blind. And that I won't be banished to the fourth circle of hell for letting any appendage stray south of my border.
Oooh er. Now all I need is one of these.
Or, if you're more vegetably inclined (as I'm sure you are... or will be after seeing this)...
(PS any new readers? I kinda think ducks are cute. And I'm also kinda conflicted bout the ole bathtime ducky here)
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I draw the line at squatting over a mirror to "worship" "teach" or "lift" my genitals to the "exaulted state they deserve."
It's pretty much a "don't ask, don't tell" relationship as far as me and my genitalia are concerned.
Rob needs to go for a walk, I think. Heh.
Hah! He prolly needs to do a little more than walking... ;)
I'll never look at a duck the same way again. ;)
I'm just gonna say... ewwww!
Reinvent your relationship with your genitals?
Easy. Different types of gloves work for me. Feels like sleeping with a stranger everytime.
Oh Goldie, you make me feel SO naughty!
By which I mean "happy" :-)
Well......I guess you should follow his instructions huh? LOL!!! :)
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fits like a second (and third) skin
Being a Gemini girl, I like variety. I'm also notorious for my inability to make a decision. Hey, I can see beauty in just about anything, mkay.
So when I found not one, but three pics I just adored while surfing for images for Cherry to use when designing my my new layout... well. I could hardly go with just one. I was actually very pleased with myself for narrowing it down to three pics in the first place.
And after a week of hard work on Cherry's part (and of hard indecision on my part), I am uber-proud to present to you two more dq layouts.
Click here for a damn good spanking, or here for something a teeny bit wet 'n' sticky. Or why not try the 'skin me' drop down box in the 'about me' section, even.
Yeah baby. Just the way I like it.
So what are you waiting for?! Go chat to the Divas about a wickedly brilliant makeover. Seriously, you'll be glad you did. I feel like a brand new dramaqueen =D.
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Awesome skins I love them all.
Beautiful skins! The "spanking" one is my favorite.
Just say "Goldie sent me?"
I'm WAY too jealous of this Whipped (you were right!) to continue with my boringness.
;o)
very cool skins!! Cherry has outdone herself again - I gotta get me some new skin...
OUCH...
LOVE that whipped skin. I'm sticking with that one.
love love and lots of love.. mmhmm that's right. I gotta sneak peek and fell in love. I am 100% sure these can not be topped Cherry. You roxx0r!
And you do to of course Goldie.. (snuggles)
Wow these are SO cool!
:)
Hubba hubba, now these are some *skins*.
Nice work.
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September 07, 2004
a wonderful new me
*slinks secretly in*
*slips seductively into her stylish and ever-so-slightly salacious new skin*
Welcome to the All New dqHQ... won't you stay a while for my skin-warming party? *oo-er*
What do you think of the place? Bit of Billie Holliday playing over here, some organza thrown over the dressing screen over there... and a Gin 'n' Tonic with Extra Lemon for everyone who comes through the door.
What's that? You'd like to know who my decorator is? Why, none other than the delectable Cherry at Web Divas. Do have a look at their portfolio and brilliant specials, and make sure you tell them goldie sent ya.
And Cherry, thanks for your fabulous work and for being so patient with all my tweaks and template issues. You're just fabulous hon!
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*Wolf whistles* - lookin' sex-aaay!
Cheers, here's to the all new DramaQueen *takes large swig of Kiwifruit Cosmopolitan*
very nice!!! they do good work, don't they?
Hubba Hubba!
XLNT dress up Goldie. Well worth the wait. :)
Cheers.
First, Welcome to MuNu, and congrats on the new look. Ya clean up well, you know?
damn, i didn't really notice before, but yeah, you have a shitload of links on your sidebar, there. like, damn!
Yummy. Looking really good!
Very classy!! By the way Goldie... Welcome back!!
You look marvelous. I really like the color scheme, too. And how DO you get time to read all those links, anyway? :)
WOW! This looks terrific!! Well done!
Goldie! Thanks so much for stopping by and I am so glad to hear that you're back (and ok)! I was worried about you. I'll have to read up on what happened, but welcome back, hunny! *hugs*
BTW - the skin looks moxielicious!
Goldie;
Marvelous! Love your skin. Also to delight in that you've gotten your Large Mamm... er... Mammal-hood back. Big hugs from Alger and da Doll.
M
Wow!!! Looks Wonderful Goldie!!! It was certainly worth the very short wait to see this. *grin*
Kickin' digs, g. I like it.
Celti, credit for this skin goes fully to Cherry of Web Divas. Moxie didn't design it.
But thank you anyway. :)
Love it! Love it!! Love it!!!
Mmmmm...I like it!
Ack! Am I not linkable material? :-(
::: puts down stapler poised to hurl at the wall :::
DAMN, this is NICE. I have blog-envy. Heh.
LOVE the new look Goldie!!!! And welcome back too!
Hot looking site. Marry me Goldie!
Did you have a haircut or something?
This whole site is great...I love the "live preview" comments thingy - can see my typos as I make them.
Oops...I should have said DIVALICIOUS! It just reminded me of the moxie girls' work. No hard feelings, divas! Lovely work!
No hard feelings at all. Infact we are flattered. Thankyou. *wink*
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cherry blossoms in the breeze
Ahhh. I love September.
Spring has definitely started sprung-ing. The Royal Adelaide Show is in full swing (complete with the All New, All Amazing Pig Diving Act!). Most of my herbs n veggies are in pots (basil, sage, capsicum [or bell peppers to the uninitiated], garlic and roman strawberries, but there wasn't any spring onion *horror*). The cherry blossoms are out in Pennington Gardens. It stays light after 6pm. I gallavanted saucily about in a vintage singlet top on Saturday night and was actually hot (...temperature-wise, that is). And my lil sis has even fallen in love (amazing how positive that is for the immune system).
And... most critically important of all...
The new season TV shows are finally here. Which means 6 Feet Under (in the cult 10.30pm channel 9 timeslot usually occupied by either it or the Sopranos... I'm still on a high from the first episode, which I just watched), Survivor Vanuatu (cannibals eat your heart out), and ... Australian Idol.
My money's on Chanel and/or Marty to inherit the crown - a modest vintage princess in the vein of Bjork and a versatile chrome dome with no problems being himself. I don't know about you...
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Excerpt: ...Welcome back! One of my favorite people is back online! (and looking just smashing!) Goldie at Dramaqueen....
Weblog: ...was i there?
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Oh I love September as well, where I am it mean autumn will be here soon, My favorite season!
Where I live it is going to be fall in a few weeks, you can already tell because the weather is already changing.
Yay! Another season of Survivor! I knew there was something missing from my life, but I just couldn't pinpoint what it was :)
*ping*
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Lookin' good sweetie!
When I first heard about pig diving, I thought it would be cruel, but after seeing them running up the ramp & belly-flopping it, you can tell they're getting off on it as much as the crowd.
However, it still won't convince me to go to the show!
Chanel for the Idol Crown, but Ricky-lee is a bit of a cutie!
I keep forgetting you are in the land down under. Spring in September. Wow. I love September and October here in the U.S. because I love Fall - that is my favorite season.
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September 06, 2004
beauty in it's purest form
Dean Esmay has a gorgeous deconstruction of female beauty through the ages, based in art and photography.
Sometimes a picture really is worth a thousand words.
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Thanks.
Real women are truly beautiful, aren't they?
Your not kidding Goldie.
Thanx for the comment about your new blogsphere home, I'll be tuning in.
Cheers.
That's funny. I read his post earlier and was thinking "wow". It is true and sad how society has changed in the last 100 years or so. I always tell Gary I want to go back to the middle ages.
I could be a hot mama AND kill people I don't like and get away with it. :D
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*breathes a nice, deep cleansing breath*
Wow. Thanks to everyone for all your comments on my last post. I just got through responding to them all (in brief, cos I have to go to work) and realised just how dramatic everything sounded when it was laid out like that. Funny that.
It's not like there haven't been good times. And it's not like I haven't been at least partially responsible for a lot of the bad ones. I firmly believe we make our own choices and lay in our own beds once we've made them. Hospital corners or no.
Which is probably why I have an anxiety disorder. But anyways...
I know I could have coped with any one or two of those situations on their own. It was just when they all came stampeding along, one after the other - BANG BANG BANG - that I started to implode. And that's why I withdrew for a bit. Simple as that.
The main thing I wanted to express was that, as I said in my comment responses, I hope you all understand how much it truly means to me to be welcomed back with open arms like this. How much it buoys me up and gives me joy, to both hear your thoughts and advice on my issues, and your open acceptance of the same from me.
What an incredibly wonderful, compassionate, generous and talented group of people I know online.
Bah! Now I might cry ;).
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Every time I read I find something else that you and I have in common. Have a good day at work and take care. The blogosphere can reap amazing awards for someone as good-hearted as you. :)
Hey there sweetie! I only just found out about your new spot. I'm so sorry to read what you and your family have had to go through, and I hope you get the chance to thoroughly stick it to those fickle bitches at your work sometime very soon.
Jenny
xxx
Am I a bad person because I giggled naughtily when Goldie said "BANG BANG BANG" ;-)
Nice new layout!! Sorry, I know I'm late commenting, but ... well, no reason. I've just been lazy lately! Great look you have here Goldie!
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September 05, 2004
pin the bunny in the tail... no, wait
Lord. I haven't been back five minutes and I'm already galavanting round in a playboy bunny outfit ala Bridget Jones over at Harvey's comment-party. Which happens to be minus Harvey. Oh dear.
However, that's nothing. You should see LeeAnn the Cheesemistress dressed in her superb nurse's getup... And Susie's already contemplating setting off the smoke alarm just so some studly hunks arrive to save the day.
Ahhhh... *breaths deep*. It's so good to be back in the 'sphere!
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Good to have ya back too! I won't be able to meet you at the comment party. The last time I got a little lost when I couldn't find you. Ended up knee deep in something... Eww.
Hmmmmmmmmm. Sounds like I'm going to have to start hanging around there. Maybe I'll just follow you. That truly sounds like my kinda party!
Daniel: I don't blame you... sometimes I wonder why I even attend them myself ;)
Rose: and you would always be welcome! I'll let you know when the next one is if you promise to dress up...
Long as you don't allow any negative nancies, consider me there! :-) Why, whatEVER shall I WEAR?
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September 04, 2004
hey kiddies... part deuce
Hello, hello. It's been a funny ole Saturday already. I was up at 5.30 and rather flushed to find screen shots of my new skins from the delectable Cherry in my inbox. I am sooo excited, you have no idea. OK, maybe you do. It's the little things giving me pleasure right now :).
Since then I've been pottering around with sexy!husband. We were going to plant our herbs today cos the moon's in just the right phase, but neither of us could be effed to even drive to Bunnings for seedlings, let alone get our hands dirty. In fact I was so tuckered out I fell asleep on the lounge floor. Ergo, I have no birthday presents for dear Mark and Amy tonight. Bugger and blasterooney.
So let's see. Last post I'd made it to June. But I just realised I'd skipped a couple of things critical to how I was feeling...
Firstly, to answer Lisa's question on how they found my URL, it was all due to my own stupidity. I gave it to 5 friends at work, who gave it to five friends, etc. With so many people logging on to look at it each day, it's no wonder it flagged in their regular analyses of non-work-related sites. And fair enough too. Yet they only knew it was me cos I was stupidly vain enough to put my pic up. Heh.
SO! Basically, once they'd taken my internet away (like they were punishing a school kid) and told me I had no career there anymore, I came off my hobby horse in a biiig way. And funnily enough, before that I was feeling the best I had in ages... I was enjoying my blog, my job, my friends... everything was going awesomely well. The cynics among you might say that the time was just ripe then for something to go wrong. Those the highest up have the farthest to fall. And fall I did. It might have run off someone else's back, but that punishment hit me at my very core.
I was going to work in a haze during that time. And between wanting to blog, yet not wanting to in case they read it, doing all my surfing at home and therefore coming in late, and feeling that there really was no point me being at work anyway if the executive managers didn't like me and I had no career... well. You can start to see why I was apathetic about getting out of bed on time.
No wonder I got myself into trouble. Hindsight is 20/20.
Still, I was starting to come good when in late April, a series of misunderstandings lead to me being frozen out by my work friends, who I was quite close with. It happened little by little. One minute we were all planning nights out and shopping every lunch time, and next minute one particular girl had decided I was on the blacklist and suddenly they were always 'too busy' for lunch, or doing something else on the weekend. Unfortunately the rest of 'em followed suit and stopped talking to me so much too.
It didn't help that one of the other girls was in my team. And because I felt so hurt and betrayed I only made half-hearted attempts at trying to reconcile it with her. Hey, they'd ousted me. What was I sposed to do? Beg? When the whole group had rejected me? Especially since none of us had ever really talked about it... no one had ever said to me 'right, you're out.' I never got closure. I think I was just sposed to get the hint. Some might ask why I let it bother me so much, but you spend more time with your workmates than you do your real friends when you think about it. (I now think it had something to do with me being in trouble at work... brushes and tar and all).
Then when I got the news in June about my sister, it was the girl in my team who's office I ran to, an hysterical mess, because we'd been so close before. This sort of thing should bridge friendship, right?
But she wasn't there. I eventually bumped into them out in the hallway, having all come back from coffee together, and I fell into a mess on the carpet, realising the extent of their rejection at the same time as the absoloutely shock of my sister's out-of-the-blue diagnosis.
It was worse the next week. I could barely sit at my desk. On the tuesday it was my birthday, and they gave me a card, a chocolate and a magazine as a group (nothing like the presents and hand-designed cards we've always done for a each other), said happy birthday, endured an awkward silence and went back to their desks. Not one word about my sister or how I was. It finally came to a head when none of them turned up for my birthday drinks on the Friday night. I don't know why I even deluded myself by inviting them. But they finally made it very clear why they weren't there when I texted them to ask.
The following week, right before CY's operation, my boss decided I needed performance counselling again (as I mentioned at the end of the last post). All of my peers had lost respect for my ability to do my job, and all my friends had bailed out. Can you see why I was feeling so bitter about going to work?
About this time I went into coping mode I think. Anything that had been 'causing trouble' in my life had to go, along with anything that made me think too much. My brain was having enough trouble coping with so much change and hurt and shock that I think it just shut down.
Ergo, the ole DQ fell by the wayside. Even though you guys had always accepted me for who I was, and sent monumental messages of support from around the globe. Even though I had been so happy being here with you. There was so much dissonance in my head around blogging... memories of some of the very best and very worst experiences all fighting for precedence, that I needed to reject it for a while. So I could sort everything else out. So I could heal. So I could help my family heal.
I spent most of my spare time in July in front of the heater on the beanbag, reading Bridget Jones' Diary 1 and 2, and then Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix for the third time. Comfort food for the soul.
It was damn good actually.
I coped by focusing on all the good stuff in my life. I have a fabulous group of friends outside work. CY seemed to be on the mend. We threw a fabulous bash for sexy!husband's 30th at the end of July, which was also damn good (70 people, a DJ friend of G's and a shitload of alcohol. Awesome.). And he took me away for a surprise holiday to Melbourne for our 2 year wedding anniversary on the 10th of August. Fabulous.
Somewhere in there the ISP ate our database, which is why I can't post at my old site, and neither can you post comments. It was hard enough to recover all my archives, let alone get the database up and running again.
Maybe the universe was trying to tell me I shouldn't've been so stubborn back in February about moving to new digs.
Anyway, we came back from Melbourne on the 10th of August, and on the 11th we found out that CY's tumour was malignant. *exhale*
Two days after that, my bosses had decided I wasn't improving at work (would you be, with so much apathy, depression and other stuff to deal with? Not to mention bitchy girls refusing to even look at you in the hallway?) and decided that it was high time they gave me a written formal warning. That meant (and still means) that if I fuck up, they can fire me at a moment's notice.
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Believe me, I'm sitting her wondering if this post is a good idea. I have no idea if they know about this site yet. I'm hoping not. I've looked at it once from work, but only once, and told no one about it. Who knows. I'm almost past caring.
So yeah. There you go. The last 8 months seems to have been all about the universe teaching me and mine a lesson we won't forget in a hurry. I've had my victim moments, and my moments of complete and utter optimism and strength.
In my 'weaker' moments (mainly in the last 3 weeks) I've contemplated cutting myself to let the hurt out. To watch it all bleed away, slowly... cos it's the only outlet I can see for release, even though I've NEVER done anything like that before. I've cried my heart out hysterically in the toilets at work more than once, asking why my family, why me, and thought about going back to my desk, printing out a lovely long and detailed suicide note (mentioning the bitchy girls and my boss in particular), and slitting my wrists in the toilets. Just so they could come find me.
Sometimes I really earn the title of this blog, eh?
But I'm strong enough and experienced enough to know that the feelings pass eventually. Those who suffer from depression know about 'the hole', and if you wait long enough, you can eventually climb back out. I'm lucky I have such an understanding and caring husband, let alone my family and friends. But lucky him gets to see the bulk of it.
Aa a status update on the work sitch, I have my final meeting next week to resolve the formal warning. My boss has indicated to me that she thinks everything's fine and there should be no probs with the warning being lifted. I realise I've made her sound like a dragon, but I guess in her situation I would have wondered what to do myself. She has a business to run. We're actually on very good terms, quite friendly really. But it was my mum (a manager herself)who gave me the best piece of advice on how to eventually resolve it all: "unplug yourself from what you see as the unfairness of the whole situation, stop seeing your boss as the enemy and start thinking of her as your best ally. Only she has the power to help you through this. That way you both win." And, like most times, my mum was right. I was just so caught up in my emotions that I couldn't see it before.
I realise that I got myself into a lot of this mess, and I take full responsibility for my actions. Even when I'm feeling like a victim, it's because I'm cursing myself for being so stoopid ;). But i can't think about the maybes and what-ifs. I'll drive myself even more insane if I do.
And as for dear CY... well, this post is as much as we know. She's in radiotherapy 5 days a week, for 6 weeks. We can only hope the side effects will be minimal and that the malignant crap will be excised from her head completely. And hopefully (metaphorically speaking) from mine too.
So. It's officially 'new start' time. A new chapter in my life... New blog, new group (thanks so much for taking me on, Pixy and the MuNuvians! You guys ROCK!) and soon a new design.
It's all downhill from here.
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I read it.
I understood it all.
And the one that hit me the most was about cutting yourself to let it all out. I have done that, too-and you know what? It works. It really does.
For about a day.
Then all the bad things come flooding back in, plus a bunch of other fun toys like guilt, embarassment, etc.
If you want to vent and write, go for it. If you want to talk, I'm on email, babe. Things are going better, things are improving. I'm not going to say something trite like "Screw those girls!" since I know how much that hurts.
All I can say is: I understand. Really. And am here if you need to talk.
Dear, dear helen. I knew you would. And same goes for you if you ever want a sympathetic ear across the other side of the globe.
I'm so glad to hear that the fog is lifting.
Man, all of that stuff with your place of work is just nutty. I'm glad you're boss is helping you work through it though. She actually sounds very nice, and certainly helpful. I wish you the best there.
You know, I don't worry about you when you're talking about cutting here. I do worry about you when you disappear and don't answer emails. I'm sure that I would be less worried if this happens again. But while you're feeling better will you choose a central contact person in the blogging world to keep updated just in case you should go missing again? Please?
*hugs*
Holdie-
I wish you'd of told the QW! about this sooner. We could have had those bitches at work killed or tortured or something. You know, when we become presidents of the world?
But seriously, I truly understand how you feel. Being "out" is no fun and you're good people, so when that happens that just makes it worse.
Face the fact about work, the worst thing they can do is fire you, and from personal experience, it usually ends up being the best goddamned thing to ever happen to you. Really.
We've missed you and your glorious insight in the world of the Ozzies. Most blog lovers enjoy living vicariously through other bloggers and we accept the good times with the bad. It's like marriage, only with more sex.
That was a joke.
So was this.
And that.
And that.
But not this.
OMG. 1) let those work bitches have each other. They suck.
2) Cutting yourself is a bad, bad idea! Because....OW! and also because it's messy and scars you and when you're in a better emotional place you don't really want to be reminded of the crap times, right?
3) Are there no job openings where you live? If that place is sucking the life out of you it would be nice to not have to go there.
4) I think you rawk! I only know what I've read on your blog, but I would totally hang out with you and not snub you on your birthday.
Hang in there!
Glad things are somewhat on the mend for you so don't lose faith! Sometimes the dark spots in our life just help us appreciate all of the good things in our lives. You're a strong person and if the "girls" at work didn't hang with you through these tough times, then it just goes to show you what kind of "friends" they really are. You're better of without them.
Wow. Goldie, I've got so much I want to say to you, I don't know if I can fit it all in here.
In a previous life at a previous job, I went through EXACTLY what you described with the gaggle of girls and how they shut you out. A bunch of us went on a vacation together, came back, and two weeks later the "leader" of the group decided she didn't like me any more. So eventually it permeated the whole group of girls, since the squeaky wheel gets the grease. So let me tell you one very important thing about that situation. Women who feel the need to blacklist you or run around behind your back turning other people against you, do it because they are insecure, and they are threatened by you. Don't you dare take it as a bad thing; if they are petty enough to snub you and be such raging bitches, just tell yourself it's because they know you're amazing, and they know they're shit.
Now. Cutting. I'm not a cutter but one of my best friends is. I'm a bulemic, nearly the same thing. I can really understand the allure of creating pain for yourself; it's a control mechanism. I'll honestly tell you that if you ever feel the desire to do that and you want to email with someone, I'd be here for you. In addition, I'd like to shoot you over to my friend's blog: anima-x.blogspot.com - Shanna is an amazing girl and has some really honest stories about her experience with cutting. We don't abuse ourselves to hurt ourselves. We abuse ourselves because our lives are out of control, and for just a moment we want to be able to control the outcome of something. Hang in there.
Your sister and family are continually in my prayers. I also hope you can reach some kind of accord with your boss... at the very least perhaps down the road if you choose to leave there, she will give you a positive reference.
And... the comment about the phase of the moon and planting an herb garden hit this "Kitchen Witch" right where it counts. Good news is, there'll be another good moon phase. :)
And - doppleganger? Long lost sister? Indeed! I'll lean on you, if you'll lean on me!
All these "ands." Whew!
Goldie, you are the strongest, most-talented woman in the world.
You can live through anything, see it clearly, come out on top, then still have the ability to weave a perfect tale out of it. I mean, who doesn't ride along on your rollercoaster when you tell a story? Who doesn't empathize? Who doesn't understand everything and get sucked in to your life? You may be the greatest writer living today.
Fuck those girls at work.
In the last year I've gotten really good at just cutting people out of my life who do nothing positive for me (and that is what real friends are for). Sure you're going to have 'bad moments' where you need friends to lean on but if the so called 'friend' is being a bitch 24/7 and calling your husband all sorts of names and well ok just being a negative person then it's time to cut them loose.
Sounds like you've got a great bunch of friends outside the office (which is always best) and you've got a great friend over here in Phoenix (or wherever the Air Force may take us). Ever want to get away just give me a buzz. You know how to reach me.
I learned the hard way that you can't ever really trust the people you work with, no matter how much you think you're friends. I'm so sorry this all happened to you. Just remember you have real friends outside of work, and that work is just that, work -- a way to pay for having fun in your real life!
just thinking of you and yours through all of this and sending you good wishes and vibes
I'm so glad you can see light from your hole. You've gone through more than I can possibly imagine, and you're still positive. You truly are amazing. Keep up the writing. It helps more than anyone can imagine.
We all love you, Hel. Stay strong.
Goodness - drama upon drama! I guess you earnt your moniker, eh? Good to see you back anyway - I'll have to see if I can edit the old bogroll ;)
It all sounds so dramatic when it’s all laid out like that, but there have been some amazing times too. I just wish it hadn't happened all at once ;). Six months ont he rollercoaster baybees!
Thank you Linda darling. I'm so sorry I worried you when I disappeared for a bit. Just know that I do have a pact with the husband that he is to let the blogging community know if anything happens to me. He's under strict instructions to post anything and everything! I made the pact with him after I got brushed by a speeding car while crossing the road a few months back :).
Ev, I'm coming to realise the exact same thing. sometimes what seems to be the worst may actually be the best thing to happen to you. I just hate having my security threatened *sigh*. maybe I have to give up my connection to some of that... And don't worry. I promise there will be more aussie blogging about beach babes in bikinis and the like, just for you ;).
Kristie honey, thankyou :). you're not so bad yourself, chick! Linda was right to say she wasn't worrying about me and cutting myself though. it was a passing thought when it all just got too much one afternoon, right after I found out about the possible side effects of CY's radiotherapy. the stuff in the toilets at work has happened 4 or 5 times lately, and a few more besides, but I would never do it. my brain seems to get enough satisfaction from just entertaining the thought. I'm getting through it with my counsellor :).
yayaempress, thanks babe. that's one thing I've told myself many, many times. almost like a mantra in the end, because we all sit within 10 meters of eachother!
Rose darling, that is almost exactly what i went through with my girls! It's funny how the ringleader can just make a decision like that and everyone will follow suit. I actually know it's because we're both extroverted and strong, but she's way more conservative 'on the outside' than me... ie she hates to think what people think of her, but she does all sortsd of stuff in secret then publicaly denounces anyone who does it in public. so when I bucked against her trend one too many times, I was out the door. Sound familiar?
thanks also for the link to your friend's site, and the wisdom about abusing ourselves. you're right on with that one, and I knew why i was feeling it when I felt it. which is why i didn't do it. I hope that makes sense ;). Oh, and I eventually got my herbs planted! Love being a certified kitchen witch!
Maine-y baby! How lovely are you! I think there are plenty of other talented bloggers out there who are vying for the title of most talented writer though. like... YOURSELF for example. And Helen at everydaystranger.mu.nu (see comment above) weaves a beautiful tale any time she puts figers to keyboard :). And... gawd, I could go on. I don't associate with non-talented bloggers, you see ;).
Rachel! that's the exact stage I'm going through - learning to cut people out of my life. I spose it's been gettign to me though looking at how many people are left vs how many I've lost or cut out... the latter figure has risen dramatically in the last few years. I'm only now learning to reconcile with that. And hell, one of the reasons I fell out with my bitch friend was because she DID say things about my husband. Funny that, hey?!
Ith darlin', that's it exactly :). I got too caught up, but I'm learning to keep myself divorced from work now.
Thanks UG :)
It's great to be back Kevin, drama and all ;)
G-Fry, I love you all too! I hope you all understand how much it means to me to be welcomed back with open arms. truly. and I'm there for all of you too, whenever you need it :). I might even have an emo-crying moment now ;).
Adam... it's the story of my life ;). Hence, I am the DQ! mars in leo eat your heart out.
welcome back! you are fabulous. remember, there are many jobs out there in the big wide world. don't obsess about any one of them to the point of hurting yourself. you are just more important.
(p.s. post sometime about how you want us to update our links to you.)
Great to see you back. I've updated your link on my site. The new design looks amazing too, very well done. A+ See me after class! ;)
Sounds like you got a ton of good advice and good wishes from everyone. I've been working like crazy and I'm so far behind in my reading, I only just got here today for this post!
When bad things happen in my little world, I always ask myself - what's the worst thing that could happen because of this? Once I realize I can cope with the worst, it makes it easier to handle what's really happening.
Your mother sounds like a terrific woman! She gave you some great advice about work and even better - you took it. Good for you!
Last of all the people you work with... geeze I so feel your pain. I've had people who have hated me - and I have never figured out why. It's very very hard to be excluded from a group especially if everything was okay and then bam! I like the suggestions above about keeping work separate from being friends. It's difficult, but in the end it's much easier on your psyche.
Anyway, sounds like things are finally starting to pull out of the hole they dropped into. I'm so glad!
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September 03, 2004
whew!
I totally forgot how many of you there are. Thanks for being so wonderful with your comments on the last post - I've read them all and appreciated them wholeheartedly in between (slowly but surely) visiting everyone on my blogrolls, and surfing for pics for my new layout. Actually, I've found a couple of gorgeous images, after surfing 9 sites and probably over 250 pics. Thanks to Cherry for being so gawddamn patient with me sending her multitudes of jpgs as a form of talking to myself about which one I wanted.
Oh yes, I forgot to mention - Web Divas (also staffed by the bitchalicious rachel) are doing some fab design work for me (along with blogmoxie). What a bunch of talented chicks I know...
It's been a funny ole day. Our dear lil cat Josie had what one might call a mild dose of the trots last night, resulting in some lovely skid marks all over our slate and carpets and a wonderful perfume pervading the entire house. Charming.
And today was also my sister's first day of radiotherapy treatment for her tumour. I went along for moral support as did my other sister Lauren, and my mum of course. Things haven't been all easy with this. We found out last week that the radiotherapy may not be side-effect-free when administered to the brain area, as it may be on other parts of the body. CY may be in for anything from blindness to losing her ability to have children. Not to mention losing some intelligence. And any hair loss may either be permanent, or grow back completely different from what it is now. IE, one woman had brown wavy hair and ended up with jet black straight hair. Spooky n weird.
I also saw her CT scans for the first time ever today. I have deliberately avoided them cos I've always been queasy of inside-body parts, but she made me look. That bloody tumour took up almost a quarter of her brain area in it's thickest part before they took it out in une (thank god they got it all). I could see where her cerebrum had been squashed over by it. Fuck me.
The main problem is with CY thinking she's going to be an utter freak, and that no one in the future will want to be her friend, let alone love her romantically. That coupled with some lil issues around 'control' and 'independence' between her, Lauren and my Mum isn't making things easy (and believe me, I'm caught in the middle cos I can see both sides of the story... not that my mum has really done anything wrong in my eyes. Seriously ill people have so many things to deal with, and losing their independence is certainly one of them for my dear sis). But she coped amazingly well considering. My Dad has also come for a visit from Hong Kong. Which is surreal. I haven't seen him for ages, you see.
Having Aunty Flow (painters and decorators) round to visit this morning hasn't helped either *sigh*.
So now that I've been so focused on my new design and a whole heap o' other 'day-to-day' stuff, it's suddenly got to 11.30 and I won't be continuing my story from yesterday just yet. Thanks again to all for your encouraging words and thoughts. They mean the absolute world to me!
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goldie - i am so happy to see you back amongst us! yay! the queen has returned!
Many thoughts and prayers go out to your sis today, along with the rest of the fam. But you know that.
AF along with all the rest of this crap...good God, I'm surprised you have the energy to blog. Though, it's these exact scenarios that make blogging such a cathartic experience sometimes.
Here's hoping for a more gentle tomorrow. :)
XXO
As I told you 3 months ago I'm still praying for your sister and your family.
You've been in my thoughts this whole time.
((megs HUGS))
Goldie dear! I've missed you so.
I do hope everything works out well for your sister. Maybe if her hair does turn out jet black they could figure out how to give her a white lock. Readers of David Eddings novels would lust for her.
It sounds like she should have a good chance since they were able to remove the tumor surgically. My sister had to go thru radiation to the head and luckily it just made her a little dizzy afterwards. So I'll be hoping for side effect treatments for your sister too.
I'm here for a cuppa and half a dozen Tim Tams :)
Whoa, lotsa stuff's been happening huh...crossing all my crossable body parts for your sis's recovery - and big bummmers about your job.
Let's hope the all new Mu Drama Queen helps you get your head round all these major dramas, babe.
Now lets open those bloody biccies!
Do me a favor. Tell your sister to focus all that energy she's spending on the unknowns on the fight, instead. Tell her to envision the chemo attacking the renegade cells. Tell her that she has to think that way to win the battle AND the war. And tell her I'm praying for her.
hey hon, so glad to see you back! send your sister my best wishes - if there is anything I can do to help, like provide information etc, let me know!
You've been so busy I'm surprised you find time to blog at all! We're sending good thoughts & wishes your way - and your sister's way, of course.
Many many wellwishes for you, and your sister, and I can sympathize with everything you're going through. Looking at CT's is scary (I've been looking at CT's recently of my mom's lung tumor, though it's benign) and facing the unknown in a medical situation is something I wouldn't wish on anyone.
You're in my thoughts.
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September 01, 2004
hey kiddies, learn a lesson from grandma goldie mkay?
Heh, I think a couple of people got the wrong end of the stick with my last entry... I meant I was going to spring-clean my blogroll of course. Although I'm not sure I did too much actual cleaning. Cos that's a dirty word an' all.
(Note: I apologise for the severe lack of extended-entryness. I hate it when they're not 'collaspsible' and take you to another page, and I can't be bothered installing a script tonight. Yes, I am anal about my blog - if I can't do it right I just won't bother. Oh, and apologies to those who've heard all or part of my melodramatic hooey already *kiss kiss*)
So. Now I'm sitting here, with a minor codeine-withdrawal headache, wondering exactly where to start.
Do I start with our ISP woes? (I mean, what kind of ISP gives their clients 36 hours notice via email to back up all their files or they're screwed? It's not like they didn't have enough space on their porn other servers to back up some small personal sites. But then THAT would constitute actual customer service, which I'm sure they'd never want to be accused of /rant)
Do I start with why I finally stopped writing a couple of months back, after months of negative reinforcement?
Do I start with my sister's tumour actually being diagnosed as malignant 3 weeks ago, after we were told it was very likely benign?
Oooooh... the DRAMA!
You know what? I'm so bloody tired I can't even make up a silly story in an attempt to make you laugh. Instead, I'll give it to you straight:
Back in February (yes, it goes back that far), I was severely disciplined at work for certain entries I wrote on my blog about how 'things' were 'done' there. They took my internet away as a punishment for three months, even though it severly hampered my ability to do my job and even though I'd never made a post from there (not since i was on blogspot anyways). I was also told I had no career there amd that i was lucky not to be going to court. Even though i never used any names. Even though I was only venting my feelings, not stating anything as fact.
I was given an offical warning straight up. Which I prolly should have seen coming. But anyway. And I prolly should have switched domains straight away to give myself some peace of mind. But anyway again.
I wasn't going to let them get to me, you see? I wasn't going to let them win by switching domains. But I was constantly wondering of course. And knowing that they were monitoring everything I wrote, my stubborness eventually lead me to censor myself. Any idiot could have told me I was going to do that. So they won anyway. Bloody pride.
I'd already developed a major blogroll problem (mainly cos you're all just too cool). That coupled with my addiction to surfing and *gasp* commenting on other people's sites, meant that I was getting to bed after 1 most nights, then getting up at 6.30, surfing some more, and getting in to work late. Even though I was already in trouble.
When it comes to my little pleasures I have very little discipline (as many of you will know). So of course this turned into a vicious cycle. I was always in late, always tired, and as my job as an editor requires a certain, shall we say, attention to detail... well, it wasn't long til I was in major league issue-town.
About this time my anxiety and panic attacks came back with a vengeance, and I finally pushed myself to visit the doctor and start on what sexy!husband and I refer to as my 'brain pills'. Yum. Little white cruchy ovals full of serotonin producing-goodness. I still don't know why I waited so long.
Meanwhile my boss started performance counselling sessions in an effort to 'rehabilitate' me. I was nearly through when my sister was diagnosed with her brain tumour in june. I went literally to pieces for a week, which i took as sick leave (this was less than a 1/3 of what I had accrued). And according to my boss I'd 'lost my focus' once again. She sat me down and gave me a good talking to when I came back to work. She was actually really MEAN to me. She told me I had to separate my personal life and my work life and just get on with things.
No, really.
I suppose some people might think that your 25 year old sister being diagnosed with cancer was an everyday emotional occurence that you could just block out and keep working, but I'm just not one of them.
Fuck this for a joke, I just lost half my entry. No seriously!
ARGH...
To be continued (cos there's no way I'm going to soend another half-hour rewriting what i just wrote ;)
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Fuck that bitch. I'd probably have hired someone to punch her in the face. Twice. With Brass Knuckles. Let's see her work through that pain. Ugh. *Pats Goldie on the back* It's okay Goldelen, Holdie, when life starts kicking you in the gut, get up and take it out on some evil bastard at work. Extreme violence is the way to go. QW! in '04!
Oh man, screw them. I had a boss once who, when my mother had a tumor in her lung, lectured me on the reasons why I should take phone calls about her condition in a vacant office and close the door (I had no door, it was a cubicle farm) for my own privacy.
A week or two later, I was chastized for leaving my desk in the middle of the day to "talk on the phone on a personal call."
Odd coincidences, but still sucky nonetheless. Can't wait to see part 2.
Oh Goldie - I don't know what to say. I'm so sorry things have been so rough for you. Even more sorry about your sister and the cancer thing - how awful to be told everything is fine... but now it's not.
As for the job - start looking! Find somewhere else to work. This is not not not the place for you. They'll probably tell you next that you can't blog - period - because it's against their policy or some wonky nonsense. They'll try and find out if you're surfing from home or something. Geeze!!!
I'll be waiting for the rest... it feels like the other shoe is about to drop. *sigh* Hang in there - we're with you.
Not quite understanding how you could get in trouble for blogging about work when you didn't name any names. How did they get a hold of your domain URL?
Either way - - sorry to hear that you have been (are) going through all this . . when it rains, it pours down under!
*Big Hug* to you, goldie - keep your chin up, girl!
I am so so sorry about your sister and everything. I know we don't know the whole story yet, but I know how bad the cancer thing sucks.
I'm sorry to hear about your sister, Goldie, and that mean Boss!
I wish I lived near you and I was a girl so I could give your boss a hard Newgy to her head!
Hey girl.. you need me to take a trip out to Aussie? I'll go on an ass kicking spree.
I am sorry I haven't been to your blog. I didn't know your address chnaged and I have ben gong to your old one and wondering why you haven't been blogging...I hope I can catch up to the few moths i have missed. I'm sorry! :)
Part 2... in anticipation... baited breath... happy ending sought...
Hunger felt... somewhat thirsty... sanwich acquired... Sprite added... feeling better...
This is my first time here and I just want to say 2 things. First off I'm sorry about your sister. I know how hard things like that can be on framily and loved ones. 2nd tell your boss to go fuck herself. I'll do it for you if you want. She has no right to tell you how to feel. What would she do if she was in your position? She'd probably take all the time off she wanted and that would be ok. But it's not ok if you do it? whatever. Next time she tries to have a little 'chat' with you tell her you quit. you don't need that kind of stress added to what's already going on in your life.
I had no idea about what happened in your workplace. I'm really sorry to hear that. It's sad that they took away your Internet as if you were a child and they took away your video games. That really doesn't say much for them as employers, to be honest.
I'm just glad you're back! It's nice to have you around again. :)
Oh No.
I'm glad to have found your new site, but oh no.
I'm sending positive vibes in your direction for your sister.
Hugs to you and your sister. A bitchslap and a stranglehold for your boss. (I think my former boss may be related to yours....)
Welcome home sweetie! I missed you so! I am so sorry about your sister. ((hugs)) I really am glad you're back.
So, Moxie eh? I can't even wait. Who's doing you? Joelle? Julie? Kathy? Mel? I can't wait to see it!!!!
Wait. Grandma? Are you nuts? I do believe you are younger than me...
;)
Welcome back! We're all still loyal fans!
First off, fuck your goddamn stupid cunt of a boss. What she said was braindead and completely uncompassionate. She shouldn't be allowed to breathe the same air as us decent people, and she sure as hell has no business being in a supervisory capacity. Retarded cow.
I am very sorry about your sister. Sending positive thoughts your way. (((hugs))
As for getting in trouble over your blog, well, that's bullshit, too. You didn't use any names or anything, so I fail to see how they could do anything (legally) beyond telling you to use your time more productively. Idiots.
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What a great post, and how revealing! ;)
That's one of the best kitty pics I've ever seen: what a looker!